I just got here but..what wow!.."You already answered when you said her line of questioning was insincere?" How can you know this , when the scriptures say only God can judge the hearts of man?
"She did not come here to seek understanding?", sorry still not in the wheel house for you to conclude- JUDGEMENT.
If all we can do is to reconcile people was your intent here to have her confess her sin, while committing your own? Don't worry about the spec in your brothers eye, worry about the log in your own scripture comes to mind.
Then, you expand the judgement.."but to misrepresent my post, bring accusations, bear false witness, and then outright lie about your motives"...each one judgement. If we are to reconcile, how would you feel after someone tells you that? Reconciled? corrected, or even rebuked in Godly love, based on the Word of God, and given in love? God says, do not judge lest ye be judged. Discernment is for reconciliation, none of the comments made were discernment, they were judgement.
Then you go on to mock her by saying now you ACT LIKE you are sincere etc etc.. I did not see her accusing you, by the way.She was stating her opinions, and asking questions of you. She doesn't agree I don't believe but this was not the conclusions of your judgements. Then the LOL, comment...was reconciling on the docket then?
You can say without a doubt? So I must conclude you don't agree with the scripture that says only God can judge the minds of Men?....so after more judgement calls I won't rewrite, you become jury by saying you will leave her to her own understandings. Reconciliation to Christ? Is this your dusting of your feet to those in the city that don't receive you? Based on Gods Word and decrees?
Matt. 5:20...For I tell you that unless your righteousness surpasses that of the Pharisees and the Teachers of the law, you will certainly not enter the Kingdom of Heaven.
Matt. 5:22.....But I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgement......................[Vs.22].."anyone who says you fool! will be in danger of the fire of Hell.
We then also have a tag team affect, for I even feel it and I am not her. That agree with you. We may have differing opinions, but we need to guard our tongues, for words do not leave us without a return of some kind.