So there is this guy that is at my pastor's sister church. Growing up I would normally see him and think to myself he is nice looking but that would be all. I would hear people talking about him and how he was engaged and I found out he use to go to my high school. I did not have any interest in him. So years progress as well as a couple of boyfriends. Last summer I had broke up with my ex two months prior and I was still stuck on my ex. the guy I mentioned in a few sentences before church came and I and my cousin was walking down a hall and he appeared my cousin took a deep breath (yes he is just that good lookin lol) and I just looked and turned around. I wasn't interested. So months later I saw him at store in my hometown. he was standing onside of store door and I spoke not sure if he heard me because he only stared. I went in store to get items and I was standing at counter I turned he was looking at me from corner of the door. so I paid for items and walked out and went to car. he continued talking to a guy and looked at my car then looked at him. So months pass and his church came to mines again. it was my pastor's anniversary. It was told to me all during church service he stared at me which I do not believe. so after service I kinda waited in my car to see if he was gone. I saw him going back into church and I got out car and went in. so I saw him coming from my right I looked he did as well and I continued walking until I saw a church member and we began talking. he was behind me talking with one of his church members. I turned around to look at him and he stopped talking and looked at me and I turned away and just smiled. so we both went outside still talking with the same people and I eventually left. I saw him once when I was at his church, not for him, but because I visit sometimes I admire their overseer. Anyway I was sitting down and he walked by where I was sitting and I looked and he did and I looked away. Then they did an altar call and I went I looked at pastor and he was onside of him and I looked at him and his eyes got buck. soon church was getting ready to let out and they did offering. I was walking towards offering plate and me and him were walking like face to face and he turned corner and was walking onside of me and he put his money in and turned to look at me. I saw all this out corner of eye. Then I saw him at Walmart with his baby cousin I was in a hurry and I was walking fast so I did not stay long to give him any type of attention. lastly I recently saw him at my church for revival. after service I looked around for him while I was at my car and our eyes met and it seemed he was smiling and about to come to me, but I hopped in car and drove off. my family is telling me I am running, but I just feel like this is a fairytale. I sometimes do not think I am worthy and think what would he want with me. anywho I was thinking about going to his church this sunday to see what would happen, but then I decided against it because that would mean I am chasing him and I feel God needs no help if he is an opportune. I do not want to be stuck on him that if he is not a good candidate I miss out on someone that is. I do not know what it is but ever since I saw him at store it was something about him to me. he is always impressed on my heart. it wasn't until I saw him at store that I became interested. he never came across my mind before then. do you think it is my imagination? I am often told I am not approachable, how can I let him know its okay to approach me without coming off as needy? good idea to attend his church on sunday? I feel based off what happens if I decide to go would let me know whether I should move on.