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I did enjoy your comment about 'spiritualizing natural feelings in a vain attempt to suggest GOD is making a point..". Who has not been told that our personal sufferings make us stronger? YET, I have yet to find anyone beg GOD for suffering or more suffering to be added to their lives in order to become STRONGER!!!!! GOD is simplistic and it eludes us. IF we focus on something..it can and will become an obsession..good or bad, period. IF those singles are busy helping others and surrounding themselves with others who have similar ideas..eventually it is possible to run across a soul mate..who knows.