Do Not Date A Non-Christian! (If You're A Christian) That is all.

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May 3, 2013
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If you date a non christian there's no real reason to celebrate christmas together, which would be a bummer

Ooooops!

That reminds me of the grinchy man I am.

PS

Happily, there are other Christians and committed believers who do not celebrate it, like me.
 
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Rosesrock

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Ooooops!

That reminds me of the grinchy man I am.

PS

Happily, there are other Christians and committed believers who do not celebrate it, like me.
Dang i forgot to put....insert sarcasm here. I apologize for any confusion
 
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And he will be the spiritual leader of your home.
Hmmm!

It bringst me joy to know there is ONE who leads and He wanted His son to be followed.

Mat 23:10 None of you should be called the leader. The Messiah is your only leader.

Mat 17:5 While Peter was still speaking, the shadow of a bright cloud passed over them. From the cloud a voice said, "This is my own dear Son, and I am pleased with him. Listen to what he says!"

Mat 19:21 Jesus replied, "If you want to be perfect, go sell everything you own! Give the money to the poor, and you will have riches in heaven. Then come and be my follower."
 
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I disagree. The ways of God are indeed unpredictable, you and this non Christian may very well have been brought together so that this non Christian could be saved.
If that person if not "actually" saved, he or she could receive a better impression of what God has done in your life...
 

sc81

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it gets hard, some of us live in places with very few christians, it severely narrows your dating options if you are limited to who goes to your church, or even christian dating sites i've looked on have <10 women within my age range and location.

I have met some very nice non-christian women who have expressed interest that I have had to turn down and it was incredibly hard after being single for so long. I would have been in a relationship years ago if I had not limited my options to christians.

i'm almost 35, I don't know how much longer I can try and remain chaste when I see no one else around me bothering too.
 

cinder

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it gets hard, some of us live in places with very few christians, it severely narrows your dating options if you are limited to who goes to your church, or even christian dating sites i've looked on have <10 women within my age range and location.

I have met some very nice non-christian women who have expressed interest that I have had to turn down and it was incredibly hard after being single for so long. I would have been in a relationship years ago if I had not limited my options to christians.

i'm almost 35, I don't know how much longer I can try and remain chaste when I see no one else around me bothering too.
Stick around. This is a great place to find support and a like minded community of those who also believe in following God's commands about love and relationships. That's one of the main things that brought me here; I needed to know I wasn't crazy or weird for obeying God.

Also, What's with the shortage of Christian girls in Australia, seems like there's a lot of guys from down under saying there aren't any Christian girls around? Hmmm…. ladies, maybe we should move.
 

acesneverwin

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I fully agree. What is the point in dating a person without wanting a potential marriage out of it?
Maybe the person is socially awkward/anxious and need the practice so when they find a person they do like they can approach them properly without looking like an absolute buffoon?

:D

In general, you're right but if you just need the social practice like me, I don't really care what they are xD Ask a girl out, go on a couple dates... then hop to the next one and correct what you did wrong the first time. Then after you build your confidence up, be a little more picky. Also helps keeps dating light and not so serious... till you land the one you wanna get serious with... then yes they should be a Christian xD
 

sc81

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Also, What's with the shortage of Christian girls in Australia, seems like there's a lot of guys from down under saying there aren't any Christian girls around? Hmmm…. ladies, maybe we should move.
I think every church i've been in has had more single men than women, alot of guys here are forced to be single because there's no options.
 
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I think every church i've been in has had more single men than women, alot of guys here are forced to be single because there's no options.
Yes, I told them it was an Aussie thing!
 
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Miri

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I think every church i've been in has had more single men than women, alot of guys here are forced to be single because there's no options.
wow that's strange maybe you should come to the UK where there are more single women
in the churches than men.
 

Lynx

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Wow. So many people taking this thread seriously...


Tintin this thread reminds me of an article on banterist, a site of satirical humor. The author wrote a scathing rebuke of the person who hacked Paris Hilton's cell phone and copied her address book. Unfortunately many people who apparently majored in using google a lot found their way to his site and begged for the aforementioned phone number list in the comments section.

After months and months and MONTHS of saying "No, but thanks for playing" the author finally said, "Okay I am now officially depressed. I want my satirical humor website back. But now that I know the state of the world's intelligence I'm going to go to my bunker and enjoy the last few years before the world ends."
 

garet82

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light and dark cant be united :)

and i don't think we can turn someone if God not come to him/her privately. so be careful don't make wrong decision n think we can change them tobe christian coz probably he/she will turn us tobe like him/her :)