Ok saints time to get real, early in my marriage my wife was called away to her brothers bedside where he was slowly being eaten up by aids. Yes it was the product of a life style that took his. He died in her arms. He was married for sometime to his high school sweetheart and had 2children in which he adored. He loved his wife and did the whole family thing right down to "church on sunday'. But he left her he said he could not live a lie any more, despite the fact of seeking counsel from the church and trying very hard to understand why he had these urges, a family was devastated. He gave support to his wife and kids above and beyond what was necessary, he moved away across the US to California to not bring shame to his son and daughter. I knew him and talked with him on many occasions, you would never know he was gay unless you were told. My wife loved her brother and his memory still haunts her to this day. What happened, what went wrong, how can it be fixed. He called her on his death bed and she flew out at his request, he lay in bed a gasping 136 lb man, crying, shaking, nothing like the 200lb man she remembered as her brother with that perfect smile and sense oh humor he teased her with even as they grew up. His last words were sorry. So saints what went wrong , how do we fix it, . The story doesn't stop there on my side of the family I have a niece that is gay. She has 3kids which she and her partner had taking turns artificially insemination style. They have since broken off their relationship with each other and are in different same sex relationships. Only in their late 20s they see to it that the children are provided for hard working and owning there own business, but a lifestyle that is bizarre. They are raising 3girls. So again saints I ask where do we begin? I am a born again believer should I show them the judgement side of God, or the love and forgiveness of Christ, just walk away, be silent. This is what I mean saints we say much in what we believe to be true but when it comes down to it we have to seek the one who knows the heart. There is more to this gay rights thing than just perversion it rips family's apart, it involves the innocent, it devastates the very core of society, it kills, and it is very real, so I ask God what will you have us to do. Just saying.