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See I would say I'd want a woman the same way...but we have to be cautious of looking just at the heart as it can be deceitful and such...but all in all if we as Christians ask God to guide our heart and our feelings allowing him to take control as opposed to our heart controlling us then one should do very well 
That's why the Bible talks about guiding your heart. If we do everything what God says to do in His Word, we wouldn't have these issues. But we're all imperfect so of course these issues are bound to happen.
I'm not trying to be contentious, but not having a husband doesn't mean you don't need men. Even people who are called to be single have need of input and involvement with the opposite gender. Not having a husband doesn't mean her life is devoid of fathers, brothers, male friends, etc. That's why I was careful in my post to not make it about having a husband, but about having the input of men to meet various needs.
I see what you're saying now. And I agree, it's important for women to have men in their lives. Even if it's not a spouse, just like men need to have women in their lives. God wants us to develop some sort of relationship with the opposite gender, even if it's not romantic. Family, friend, coworker, Bible study partner, whatever. I think there was a little confusion on my part, because I was looking at it from the romantic relationship perspective, as I thought that's what the topic was about.
While I have a fantastic career that I worked hard to obtain and can easily provide a very comfortable life for myself I still feel as though I need a man to provide or meet other areas of my life that remain slightly unmet. Please notice the word slightly. I am able to have a level of compaionship needs met through family, friends, pets but there is a deeper longing to be "known" at an intimate level that only a spouse can provide. It is a strong need/ache/desire that is a need. Of course I will be able to live without it but nonetheless it remains an unfulfilled need. As a woman I would want the Godly man of character and substance all women want on this site but it would thrill me to find this man also has a full rich life of his own. That he could offer his passions, insights, and experiences for us to share. Our combined lives would bolster our current situations on all levels. Of course if he could recognize that Im beautiful, hilarious, witty, strong and quite charming that would be icing on the cake!! Lol.
