Are woman supposed to stay silent in church?

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NotmebutHim

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Quite a few threads from someone else were removed earlier today...
Apparently, from what I gather, someone who claimed to be single in the profile but stated being married to a much older man.
 
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"Women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the law says.If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church." - 1 Corinthians 14:34-35.


There are a lot of women who preach and no one bats an eye. Except some strict denominations

why sure...as a matter of fact, that's why duct tape comes in so many colors now...it's so that you can co-ordinate with the woman's outfit

I mean, just because the Bible says women can prophesy in church and a good number of women fulfilled important places in both testaments, why should we let that bother us?

Maybe the muslims have the right idea...why not ask women to walk about 5 steps behind whatever male they may have come to church with

don't let them vote, don't let them drive and by gum, don't let them join these public forums

 

MarcR

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why sure...as a matter of fact, that's why duct tape comes in so many colors now...it's so that you can co-ordinate with the woman's outfit

I mean, just because the Bible says women can prophesy in church and a good number of women fulfilled important places in both testaments, why should we let that bother us?

Maybe the muslims have the right idea...why not ask women to walk about 5 steps behind whatever male they may have come to church with

don't let them vote, don't let them drive and by gum, don't let them join these public forums

Humor may indeed be the best response to this thread!

I am usually reluctant to presume that a thread has an insincere motive unless the OP demonstrates that to be so.


I don't think either of us wants to be intentionally rude to a real newbie!


I suppose that sincere posters don't post and disappear!
 
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jsr1221

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Sees title of Thread... Comes in to see op... Backs away slowly hoping to avoid the fireworks m
 
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I think the word of God is not dated and or not culturally applicable.....it seems when someone disagrees with the word of God concerning the qualifications that have been penned under inspiration concerning a pastor it becomes all to easy to sweep it under the rug and or under some recently coined phraseology invented by those who are not biblical to begin with......Maybe the publishers should start making perforated bibles for all who want to disregard the word when it offends their modern sensibility!
 

Dude653

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I think the word of God is not dated and or not culturally applicable.....it seems when someone disagrees with the word of God concerning the qualifications that have been penned under inspiration concerning a pastor it becomes all to easy to sweep it under the rug and or under some recently coined phraseology invented by those who are not biblical to begin with......Maybe the publishers should start making perforated bibles for all who want to disregard the word when it offends their modern sensibility!
When Paul wrote these letters to the churches ,he was specifically addressing the churches of Corinth and Ephesus. So basically you were reading someone else's mail to form a doctrine
 
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When Paul wrote these letters to the churches ,he was specifically addressing the churches of Corinth and Ephesus. So basically you were reading someone else's mail to form a doctrine
If that is the logical conclusion then there is nothing of value for the Lord's churches in any of the church letters written.....just a point to ponder!

And of course I don't believe that.........!
 

MarcR

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I think the word of God is not dated and or not culturally applicable.....it seems when someone disagrees with the word of God concerning the qualifications that have been penned under inspiration concerning a pastor it becomes all to easy to sweep it under the rug and or under some recently coined phraseology invented by those who are not biblical to begin with......Maybe the publishers should start making perforated bibles for all who want to disregard the word when it offends their modern sensibility!

I tend to agree with you; however I do see both local issue and cultural issue as legitimate possibilities where an issue is so seldom addressed. The main problem I see with both of these explanations is lack of historical evidence in corroboration of either of them.

If there were historical evidence that Paul was addressing a local or cultural issue I would be persuaded that that was the intent.
 

MarcR

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When Paul wrote these letters to the churches ,he was specifically addressing the churches of Corinth and Ephesus. So basically you were reading someone else's mail to form a doctrine

The doctrine primarily arises from the pastoral letters to Timothy and Titus and a fleeting mention in a letter to Corinth; so there is reason to look into the possibility that the issue was local to Corinth, Ephesus, and Crete. The problem is that among Josephus, Tacitus, Pliny, Heroditus, Deodorus Siculus, and Eusebius; I can't find anything to support a local issue. Of course the fact that I have not found such evidence is not conclusive of its absence.
 
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EdisonTrent

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I think so, then I could easily just nod my head yes or no silently ((yea what she said))
 

MarcR

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The doctrine primarily arises from the pastoral letters to Timothy and Titus and a fleeting mention in a letter to Corinth; so there is reason to look into the possibility that the issue was local to Corinth, Ephesus, and Crete. The problem is that among Josephus, Tacitus, Pliny, Heroditus, Deodorus Siculus, and Eusebius; I can't find anything to support a local issue. Of course the fact that I have not found such evidence is not conclusive of its absence.

On re-examination of Heroditus; it appears that in both Corinth and Lesbos; a woman speaking out in public might me taken for a cult prostitute of Aphrodite. page 9 of 710 in my coppy (pages in my copy were unnumbered except by my word processor).

I did a word search on Corinth.
 
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EdisonTrent

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Arrg had the men men men song deleted I guess this CC is Muslim controlled for the Muslim photo remains huh I'm out
 
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VioletReigns

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And anyone who thinks this site is not the same thing as a church, I beg to differ.

"Wherever two or more are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them."

Jesus is here among us. I'd call that a body of believers. I'd call that a church.
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EdisonTrent

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And anyone who thinks this site is not the same thing as a church, I beg to differ.

"Wherever two or more are gathered in My name, there I am in the midst of them."

Jesus is here among us. I'd call that a body of believers. I'd call that a church.
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I agree completely put a house of fear can be rust to the spirit.. Is letters of what tha freak in a song bad for me or a photo of In slaved women who can't in joy freedom sometimes put to death for not weary the right clothing, just venting for some admins have there prioritys not in order
 
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atwhatcost

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The part: "ask your husband at home" is so unrealistic in our culture sometimes. Many women who attend church have husbands that don't even read the bible. And many women read the bible and attend bible studies much more than their husbands. Many women don't even have husbands.

When this was written, there must have been no women attending meetings without their husbands. And in that culture, men must have had more advantage to learning the spiritual writings.

I agree that women should not disrupt the service (they must have been doing so at that time). And usurp authority over the man. But we all know that all the gifts of prophecy, teaching, etc. were given to women along with the men. There was a time and place for them to be ministered in the gathering of believers.
Actually, from what I was taught, the synagogues were divided.

<-----------women over there.
men over there--------------->
Even a curtain in between. So the teacher would read that Jesus said Blessed are the peacemakers, and some wife calls over to hubby, "Hear that, Peter? You're supposed to be a peacemaker." lol

Actually I can hear it more when Peter changed the dietary laws. "Hear that, sweety? We CAN have bacon with our eggs. Go talk to Farmer Apollo on the way home." Or, "Honey? What's he mean by...?" and then honey shouts back. You really only need three couples doing that before someone brings in a bow and arrow or a slingshot.

As for how it goes now, exactly why marry a hubby who isn't into studying the scripture? Kind of like having a trampoline with no springs attached on one side. The family does nothing but sag. Hubby IS supposed to be the head of the group. Why marry someone who won't be?

And unmarried ladies? Dad, Uncle Joe, older brother, BBF, pastor (after church) and elder? It's not like any woman should have no guys to turn to even in this day and age, or she's hanging out with the wrong guys.

Also why did that culture have more advantage to read the scripture? Scribes don't come cheap. Buying what they wrote cost a pretty penny. They probably had to go to the temple to read the scrolls. Now we can get it on the Internet, in libraries, at book stores. We've got the advantage. Not only do we have Bibles, we have versions that fit us, and Bible aids from men who studied the stuff for decades.

And, yup. There was a time to prophecy and sing a song, or speak in tongues with an interpreter nearby. But they didn't teach.
 
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atwhatcost

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It never ceases to amaze me why someone would be against women speaking in a Christian church, would not become a member of a church which permits it, and yet becomes a member on this Christian site which encourages women to teach.

If you don't agree with the rules of this site, why become a part of it? Seriously, WHY? :confused:


The rules encourage women to teach on this site? Must have missed that one. Is there a page 2? Never looked that far.
 
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atwhatcost

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Humor may indeed be the best response to this thread!

I am usually reluctant to presume that a thread has an insincere motive unless the OP demonstrates that to be so.


I don't think either of us wants to be intentionally rude to a real newbie!


I suppose that sincere posters don't post and disappear!
I posted something this morning. Haven't checked it for more than 5 hours. Does that make me a troll?

Is anyone on her NOT a troll?