i should preface; i'm not speaking from a cessationist point of view.
but it's a pretty big stretch IMO to think that 2 Timothy 1:6 is in any way at all talking about tongues. no where in the context of the epistle - or even in the 1st epistle to Timothy - is speaking in tongues even hinted at. Paul is instructing this man about organizing the ministry of the local body of believers, about godliness, about holding firm to sound doctrine & giving no quarter to false teaching.
i understand how this is meant as an example, and if it is to draw a parallel, fine,
but i just wanted to voice my agreement with the others who say there's not any immediate association with tongues here. the gift that He means for Timothy to "fan the flames of" is the Holy Spirit itself, and we can assume by the context & content of these letters, along with other Biblical and historical proofs, that Timothy had by this Spirit a gift for pastoral leadership & teaching.
It is only a big stretch from a cessationist's point of view, or if you are one who has not personally experienced the baptism with the Holy Spirit as they did at Pentecost when the Holy Spirit was poured out.
When the apostles laid hands on believers there are many accounts that agree they spoke with tongues and prophesied, and this is what the scripture I posted refers to principally.
Your second paragraph shows me that you view the Holy Spirit as an "it"....so it is obvious that you see Him as a common noun, and that being a Christian you therefore have received "it". I can't help but see that as offensive to God, except that you are doing it so some extent innocently in ignorance.
If you can stretch yourself to embrace a sounder level of doctrine than where you are at the moment, read the Gospel of John chapters 14, 15 and 16 where you can see that the Holy Spirit is a "HE". He is also God, since He can be blasphemed. So when we receive Him, He also gives us gifts and callings so that we know we have received Him, and can function in the body of Christ spiritually. One of the gifts is tongues as above, but as I have said before over and over, there are others, as follows:
1 Cor 12:
Vs 1
1 Now concerning spiritual gifts, brethren,
I would not have you ignorant.....
.....to Vs 4 Now there are
diversities of gifts, but the same Spirit. 5 And there are differences of administrations, but the same Lord. 6 And there are diversities of operations, but it is
the same God which worketh all in all. 7 But the manifestation of the Spirit is given to every man to profit withal.
8 For to one is given by the Spirit the word of wisdom; to another the word of knowledge by the same Spirit; 9
To another faith by the same Spirit; to another the gifts of healing by the same Spirit;
10 To another the working of miracles; to another prophecy; to another discerning of spirits; to another divers kinds of tongues; to another the interpretation of tongues:
I see that all these gifts are still gifts even if they are not active, and that is why what we have received from the Holy Spirit, we must stir up and use, so that every man profits from it, starting with ourselves.
We must face the fact that there is no ministry to the body without the Holy Spirit. The flesh, including the religious flesh, profits nothing. The latter is what we are seeing largely in the discussions, evident by the fact that those of us who have received the baptism with the Holy Spirit, including the gift of tongues and/or the other gifts mentioned in the above scripture are all in agreement.
It is an exciting thing to know that God has not changed:He is still ready to bless you and to gift you and to empower and use you. Please don't be deceived by those who disguise their unbelief with cessationism, trying to make the true servants of God look like devil worshippers. They will reap their reward in full.