Temptation to reconnect

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This got me wondering. Is that a real tattoo on your avatar? Tigger? Lol.
Hi Abing. :)

Yep, Tigger is a real tattoo. But that was the very beginning, now he's next to Pooh, Piglet and Eeyore and they're rejoicing at the foot of the Empty Cross. Maybe I can take another picture and post it.
 
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Hi Abing. :)

Yep, Tigger is a real tattoo. But that was the very beginning, now he's next to Pooh, Piglet and Eeyore and they're rejoicing at the foot of the Empty Cross. Maybe I can take another picture and post it.
In the beginning there was Tigger... and then the rest of the gang! Lol that probably looks cool. Show us! If my pain tolerance wasn't very low, I'd have had a tattoo when I got saved. Lol, so, sometimes I use Henna tattoos.
 

seoulsearch

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Hi Abing. :)

Yep, Tigger is a real tattoo. But that was the very beginning, now he's next to Pooh, Piglet and Eeyore and they're rejoicing at the foot of the Empty Cross. Maybe I can take another picture and post it.
Now I'm waiting for the picture of Sponge Bob Squarepants...
 

Roh_Chris

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In the beginning there was Tigger... and then the rest of the gang! Lol that probably looks cool. Show us! If my pain tolerance wasn't very low, I'd have had a tattoo when I got saved. Lol, so, sometimes I use Henna tattoos.
Henna?? Henna is a very Asian thing. Do they use Henna tattoos in the U.S. too? :confused:
 
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Henna?? Henna is a very Asian thing. Do they use Henna tattoos in the U.S. too? :confused:
Roh, Roh, Roh. Not everyone on CC is from America. ;) :p Abing is from the Philippines.
 

garet82

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I hv a friend on this from pass n not seing that person for 6 years untill last gime i met that person. I thought that person would change but its almost impossible to ghat person n i kicked n block that person from my contact phone in fb, bbm or phone.
Move on n forget her brother, she wont chance.
 
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Abing

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Henna?? Henna is a very Asian thing. Do they use Henna tattoos in the U.S. too? :confused:
Now that you mentioned it, I don't actually know. I thought it's everywhere...
 
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It's been 2 weeks now and I have not had contacted her at all but she still e-mails me and texts on facebook (I have muted all of them however and not responded to them . ) I'm now wondering if i did the right thing by leaving her although she was verbally and emotionally abusive there are also good sides to her as well . The temptation to reconnect back with her is so strong ..

Trust me, i know how you feel, because like you, i am thinking that too! But everytime i feel that urge! I will remind my self how he treated me! What i was, how i feel that time! Once you reconnect with her, maybe atfirst it will be good but then, probably than not! You will come back on that pit again! It is hard to move on, but sometimes you need to harness your emotion for your SANITY SAKE! MOVE ON! She will just damage your self esteem! Always think that before picking up what God told you to drop, think first why He told you to drop it!

Wean your self from her!NC (no contact rule) is important! You can't move on if you will continue to talk to her! Move on! It maybe hard but you will get better everyday!
 
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Abing

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Abing is a Filipino who lives in Philippines? :eek:
Nah she lives in the jungle where she learned dem survival skillzzz.

I live in a small country called Singapore right now, but I go back to the Philippines every few months.
 

Roh_Chris

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Nah she lives in the jungle where she learned dem survival skillzzz.

I live in a small country called Singapore right now, but I go back to the Philippines every few months.
What is Singapore?

Jus' kidding... I've been to Singapore twice. I think it's an awesomely cool and safe country. :)
 
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Sounds like a good idea. If you want to throw your life away and spend your life as a doormat. Not to mention the potential for physical abuse. She won't change. Everything she did before she will continue to do if you reconnect. Maybe more.
What crack are you smoking that you think getting her back would be a good idea?
Pit bulls can have good sides too, but if they chew your face off when they get mad are you going to keep it? You're being blind and foolish.

Not or trying to be mean, but you kind of needed a slap in the face.

Thanks ugly for that healthy dose of reality haha :)
 
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I'm sorry CG. But I think it's normal to romanticize people after we let them go...okay I wouldn't know but I assume that's what happens. haha

Anyways you have to worry about yourself, not this girl. Didn't you say she would take money from you and abuse you verbally? You think God is happy with you living like that? He wants the best for his children. You deserve a girl who's going to treat you right and is respectful to you.

Don't waste time thinking about the past or wondering if you made the right decision. You know you did. Think of it this way: If she's using you for money, she doesn't really love you and will eventually leave. So it's best to do the hard part (getting over her) right now and not later when you're more involved with her.

I hope I helped. God bless you, brother!

Thanks Molly , its always worth taking note of the damage that was done by her .. feelings can be misleading .