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She's Christian, but we are not a team. A team plays off of each other's strengths and honestly she has none. I spend an incredible amount of time and energy cleaning up her mistakes which she refuses to learn from. She's more ball and chain than help-meet.
She is high maintenance - in that I have to spend an incredible amount of time and energy... oh you get it from here.
I'm not unhappy, I would call it more 'resigned'. But I have told my brother and best man that if she were to ever pass and I ever talk about remarrying, they are to have me declared incompetent and locked up
She is high maintenance - in that I have to spend an incredible amount of time and energy... oh you get it from here.
I'm not unhappy, I would call it more 'resigned'. But I have told my brother and best man that if she were to ever pass and I ever talk about remarrying, they are to have me declared incompetent and locked up
I always thought that scenario was typically funny - how the woman starts something that we men then take responsibility for
The point is that blame-shifting is a neat trick for avoiding looking at what we have done wrong.
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She's Christian, but we are not a team. A team plays off of each other's strengths and honestly she has none. I spend an incredible amount of time and energy cleaning up her mistakes which she refuses to learn from. She's more ball and chain than help-meet.
She is high maintenance - in that I have to spend an incredible amount of time and energy... oh you get it from here.
I'm not unhappy, I would call it more 'resigned'. But I have told my brother and best man that if she were to ever pass and I ever talk about remarrying, they are to have me declared incompetent and locked up
She is high maintenance - in that I have to spend an incredible amount of time and energy... oh you get it from here.
I'm not unhappy, I would call it more 'resigned'. But I have told my brother and best man that if she were to ever pass and I ever talk about remarrying, they are to have me declared incompetent and locked up
And have you tried counseling? My parents are about the two most opposite people I know. They've made it 43 yrs. If they could only see they both have strengths and are working against each other and start working together they'd be unstoppable. Does your wife know how you feel? Is it something she can work on?
Sorry to derail the thread but I think the OP has her advice and has made up her mind.
I completely disagree about giving a sign.. If he's your friend at least, then he deserves a face-to-face truth. But how do you know for sure it's not you trying to convince yourself you don't see anything more than church with him? I think maybe talk things over fully with him. Communication is key to everything in life.
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We go to counseling all the time. The counselor has talked to her about her issue(s) but she refuses to address them. Yes she knows how I feel. To be honest, the woman has a heart of absolute gold. The problem is, what's upstairs is made of the same material.
We do all right. But we would advance if I didn't have to spend so much time and energy fixing her mistakes.
We do all right. But we would advance if I didn't have to spend so much time and energy fixing her mistakes.
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I had no problem with the question being asked the first time. I do have an issue with the same question being asked repeatedly when it has already been answered. If someone has legitimate insight I would be happy to hear it.
If someone honestly thinks that going on a date with someone who I already know well is going to change his personality or how I feel about him I would love to hear the reasoning.
If someone honestly thinks that going on a date with someone who I already know well is going to change his personality or how I feel about him I would love to hear the reasoning.
