Is being a submissive wife really taboo?

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VioletReigns

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I am quite certain that I will get an immense amount of static for saying this, but my beliefs are one in the same. God says that wives should submit to their husbands. My husband is the head of our home, and his say is ultimately what we will carry out.

Yes, God is my Master, but my Husband is my Master as well. I entrust him with my life and well being. I have no idea how 'Master/slave' has become such a taboo, but we feel in our heart of hearts that it is right.

I am grateful to see that there are like minded christians out there. I was beginning to think that we were the only ones that lived this way. I pray that more and more couples like us begin to come out of the woodwork.

Thank you for your story, and God bless!

Mother of 1 since November 13, 2013
Married to Master since February 14, 2013
Believer since 2009
I will also add that being a submissive to Master (husband) is my pleasure and joy. It makes to happy to please him, and in turn create a happy environment in our home. He takes my thoughts into consideration when it comes to decisions, but I trust he will make the one that is best for our family. It is not just a biblically based reason, however I do not (nor does my pastor) believe that it goes against any kind of biblical teaching. As long as it is kept within your marriage, it does not. And a Master /sub relationship does not necessarily mean torture and pain, for those of you making comments about that.
RLynn - You just joined this site and the first comment you post is:
“I am quite certain that I will get an immense amount of static for saying this….”

Translation: “I intend to create lots of static.”

Can you imagine if your church was holding a friendly Wednesday night fellowship and I burst into the doors announcing that I’m about to say something that’s guaranteed to create controversy? I hope that somebody in your group would have the wisdom to set me straight. I certainly would not want to continue being so obtuse and haughty.

Your other comment: “I have no idea how 'Master/slave' has become such a taboo...”

You don’t understand? For REALS?!?
Then why did you follow with the comment: "….does not necessarily mean torture and pain…” So sado/masochism isn’t necessarily taboo to you?

I’m going to tell you exactly what I see here. I see a woman who manipulates. I see a controller who is boasting to the world that she is a willing slave but in reality is trying to enslave this site with controversy ("static").

Because IF it was actually the spirit of Jesus Christ conforming you into His own submissive nature, you would not be on a forum boasting about how you have made yourself a slave to obey. You suggest that your husband is your master and yet you have not submitted to God with a humble heart. You are promoting yourself, your own behavior, and your beliefs, and stated that you are certain it's going to cause static on this forum.

That is not a submissive spirit – that in fact is a controlling spirit. It is prideful, vain, and suggestive. If it was of God you would have lifted up Jesus Christ, not yourself.

Philippians 2:3 -- Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves.

I John 4:1 -- Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. This is how you can recognize the Spirit of God: Every spirit that acknowledges that Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is from God, but every spirit that does not acknowledge Jesus is not from God.

RLynn, your entire post acknowledges YOU.

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Dear men and women of God, don't let these "false prophets" rile you. If any man or woman is the Lord's, they would look and act like Him, ya know? Jesus wasn't haughty and prideful. He made Himself of no reputation. Anyone that comes onto this site bragging about their own accomplishments, know that they are not speaking from Jesus' point of view.
 
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seoulsearch

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Because the style of communication and use of key phrasing is uncannily similar...

I could be wrong, I am guessing that RLynn is the original poster under a different name.
 

seoulsearch

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I am quite certain that I will get an immense amount of static for saying this, but my beliefs are one in the same. God says that wives should submit to their husbands. My husband is the head of our home, and his say is ultimately what we will carry out.

Yes, God is my Master, but my Husband is my Master as well. I entrust him with my life and well being. I have no idea how 'Master/slave' has become such a taboo, but we feel in our heart of hearts that it is right.

I am grateful to see that there are like minded christians out there. I was beginning to think that we were the only ones that lived this way. I pray that more and more couples like us begin to come out of the woodwork.

Thank you for your story, and God bless!



Mother of 1 since November 13, 2013
Married to Master since February 14, 2013
Believer since 2009
If you look up the original poster's profile, this part especially is identical, except with the dates changed.

I'm assuming you've come back to act as "support" for the original post under a new name, and to further prolong the subject matter.

Whoever you are, I wish you the best--and a truth-filled relationship with the Lord.
 
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VioletReigns

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Because the style of communication and use of key phrasing is uncannily similar...

I could be wrong, I am guessing that RLynn is the original poster under a different name.
Unfortunately, I went back to read the nauseating OP and immediately recognized the "taboo" culture she is involved in. I'm quite familiar with that demonic spirit atmosphere as my youth was littered with predators and perverts speaking that same slave/master language. Satan appears as an angel of light but we who are in Christ are sober & vigilant and not at all blind to deception. I have also counseled many young people who fell victim to psychopaths & sociopaths who use this type of brainwashing language to groom their victims. It's totally sick and I hope people like that don't prey on our precious young people on this site.
 
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Tintin

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Because the style of communication and use of key phrasing is uncannily similar...

I could be wrong, I am guessing that RLynn is the original poster under a different name.
Kim, I suspect you're right. I think I mentioned as much earlier.
 
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Mitspa

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Yep same person...they cant be two people like this in the whole world.
 

seoulsearch

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Kim, I suspect you're right. I think I mentioned as much earlier.
The "Married to Master" seems to be a dead giveaway, as this exact wording is also in the original poster's profile.

Like most people on CC, I've seen many, many people who are apparently posing under different names, but I'm always quite perplexed as to how they seem to believe others won't notice such obvious giveaways? Unless, of course, they want people to know, as some seem to do just to make their mark.

I've often thought of writing an entire thread on this subject--when people "write", they have a particular "voice" and "personality" just as if they are audibly speaking, and even if the moods seem to be different, there are usually key phrases they use over and over that become almost instantly recognizable. I'm not talking about obvious trolls here, but people who actually don't want to get caught but misleading others.

I'm certainly no expert in this but would love to hear how other people have come to discern these types of situations as well. I'm sure we might all learn something and find out how to further protect ourselves against deceit through such discussion.

I'm not sure exactly how to word a thread about that subject (recognizing people who are going under different names) but would love to see it shared in further detail.
 
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Hellooo

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Thats funny you say that..there was a thread a few days ago that I thought 'sounded' like dothackzero
 

seoulsearch

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Thats funny you say that..there was a thread a few days ago that I thought 'sounded' like dothackzero
*sighs*

Ah, the good old says.

#RetroTrolling (as opposed to Rick Rolling.)

I'll probably get stoned for this but I actually used to like some of Dot's posts and threads. If nothing else, they sure were entertaining!
 

Angela53510

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The "Married to Master" seems to be a dead giveaway, as this exact wording is also in the original poster's profile.

Like most people on CC, I've seen many, many people who are apparently posing under different names, but I'm always quite perplexed as to how they seem to believe others won't notice such obvious giveaways? Unless, of course, they want people to know, as some seem to do just to make their mark.

I've often thought of writing an entire thread on this subject--when people "write", they have a particular "voice" and "personality" just as if they are audibly speaking, and even if the moods seem to be different, there are usually key phrases they use over and over that become almost instantly recognizable. I'm not talking about obvious trolls here, but people who actually don't want to get caught but misleading others.

I'm certainly no expert in this but would love to hear how other people have come to discern these types of situations as well. I'm sure we might all learn something and find out how to further protect ourselves against deceit through such discussion.

I'm not sure exactly how to word a thread about that subject (recognizing people who are going under different names) but would love to see it shared in further detail.
I agree with you totally about how easy it is to recognize a person when they come back under a different name. The "voice" is a dead giveaway, along with certain key words. If they are a banned person, I report them. If they are not banned, I tend to stay away from them, unless I know they left for legitimate reasons, which does happen.

Anyway, it would be so nice if everyone could stop posting on this S&M&B and whatever else this lifestyle includes.

We need to open a new thread to talk about trolls, etc. And we can just ignore it when the OP comes back under a different screen name to try and agitate everyone and boosts the post up against. S/He has already gotten enough mileage out of this totally unbiblical and ethically immoral thread!

Please beware, this thread is about Sadism and Masochism, Dominance and Bondage, NOT about biblical submission in a marriage, ok??
 
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Mitspa

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Oh my goodness ...I just got beat up pretty good for thinking someone came back on this site ..on another thread. Let me guess if that same member will come and jump on folks here? I doubt it for some reason?
 
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I read what the OP said and I did not see any red flags. She is willingly submitting to her husband. I do not see any BDSM in it. God bless you as well as the OP, may you continue to love your husband and may in turn continue to love you. You are not a troll and I do not consider you trollish. Have a beautiful day! :)
 

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Wow, I couldn't agree more with Myst. You sound cultish. We all serve only one master!

Honestly, this sounds a bit trollish to me. If it isn't, consider the master thing. No man should be your master. Ever. Enough said.[/QUOTE]
 
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coby

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I've gotten the gasp and eye roll from pretty much every person I have this conversation with (Christian or not) when I say I am a submissive wife to my Master (husband). The truth is I have always had a submissive type of personality and spirit. I do my best everyday to submit to God and my Husband.
This means, I wake up and do my daily devotional and pray, I then kiss Master awake and make food while He chooses our clothes for the day. I sometimes will draw Him a shower then clean the house. It is these things, but mostly it is about listening to Him if He tells me no for something I trust that He has my best interest in mind. This is a rare occurrence though. Being a submissive wife to me is also not arguing withMaster if iI don't like something. There are times where He will for instance leave clothes about the house instead of putting them in the basket, instead of arguing I simply ask "I know you work a lot to give me and us a good life and home and you're tired at night but next time can you please put your clothes in the basket?" And He apologizes and picks up His own mess.

It is about trust, love and honesty. I don't understand why some people think that women being this way is somehow wrong.
Oh I thought you went a bit too far in your 'gonna marry Jesus' thing but you were talking about a normal husband with a capital. Sounds like idolatry.
 
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Just FYI, this thread is over a year old and the poster is no longer on the site.
 
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Chuckt

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It is about trust, love and honesty. I don't understand why some people think that women being this way is somehow wrong.
The Bible says that a man and wife have to submit to one another. God took a rib from Adam and in the Hebrew it is the closest thing to a man's heart so God did not make you from a bone of Adam's foot so he could step on you or rule over you.

Ephesians 5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.

I don't have time to read 30 pages of replies.
 
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GraceRevelation

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Calling your husband "master" is strange and definitely isn't biblical. Yes we know in the bible it says for the wives to submit to their husbands, first the husbands must love their wife as Christ first loved the church. I think it's great if you and your husband have a relationship where he loves you and you can trust in him enough to submit and follow his lead. I would stop saying master though it reminds me of like a master and slave thing...try King and your his Queen :)
 
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worshipful

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I know a lot of wives don't agree with submission in this day and age. But the Bible is very clear in this regard. Ephesians 5.22: Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as to the Lord.
That's as cut and dry as you can get.