Getting back to the OP, I was going to say lying. Because if you can't trust someone's word, you can never trust them. Was it one lie, or two or all the time? Of course, this really is a Biblical issue - "do not bear false witness." (Exodus 20:16) Ethics is important whether you are a Christian or not.
However, someone reminded me how much I utterly detest (this is personal!) people telling me the reason I am sick is because I don't have enough faith, or I have not prayed enough. Yep, I really get the dander up at this one. If I could figure out a way to control my RA, I might feel different, but hitting me when I am already down - that just does NOT work for me.
I'm off to see the debate. I may even join in as a solidly conservative, semi-socialist! LOL