Perhaps what I have posted in my own OP will help some of you who may be at a loss in understanding the question or point put forth.
Many folks attempt to use Paul's letters in order to debunk obedience being necessary, even though we live in grace. Perhaps these folks will explain the following from the Epistles:
1Ti 1:9
Knowing this, that the law is not made for a righteous man, but for the lawless and disobedient, for the ungodly and for sinners, for unholy and profane, for murderers of fathers and murderers of mothers, for manslayers,
The law is NOT made for the righteous man, ratehr for the lawless and disobedient. Now by virture of the content of the quote and its meaning in proper regard, those who are righteous are not lawless nor are they disobedient.. Now being not lawless nor disobedient cannot be interpreted as anything other than what it states.
Righteous people, family in Christ, are obedient and they are lawful. This in absolutely NO manner says these people are "under the law," as those lacking in education of the Word would say. Please learn this, for your eternity does depend on knowing this in the heart, soul and mind.