Years later to this I was thinking back my experiences and thinking the question about different christian religions. Each to them think they are right one, why else people would stay there (unless by social pressure) but the hostility to others kept bugging me alot.
At this point God spoke to me. What he said exactly is something I cannot translate to english word by word but meaning was something like this: "Your ignorance to religions and state of man heart is so great that it's not your to worry about these things. What is meant to be between man and God is between man and God. For you my son love them like fellow christian and follow my word".
Have you encountered something similar you wanna share or what do you think about this im right and your is false thing in general and how you have dealt with that?
I don't think we're saved by believing in hell but there is a hell and not believing in it means that we don't believe God which is the opposite of faith here.
I have a relative who is reading books on dispelling hell but the books being read are not the Bible. My relative is studying to be a hireling because you don't read books to learn how to lie to people to get them to come to church.
I read articles and several books and after about 300 hours, I was able to disprove annihilationism. There is a hell. On top of that, I bought some more books to stack the evidence in my favor.
The issue here is if you want to believe God. I believe God and being friends with those who differ would be offensive to God so therefore friendship with the world is enmity towards God.
James 4:4 Ye adulterers and adulteresses, know ye not that the friendship of the world is enmity with God? whosoever therefore will be a friend of the world is the enemy of God.
Enmity means hatred so if I agree with you, God says I hate him.
Romans 8:7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
Being subject to God means that I have to disagree and that means that we can never get along on the issue.
So how are you supposed to love them like a fellow Christian and follow His word?
Luke 12:51 Suppose ye that I am come to give peace on earth? I tell you, Nay; but rather division:
Luke 12:52 For from henceforth there shall be five in one house divided, three against two, and two against three.
Luke 12:53 The father shall be divided against the son, and the son against the father; the mother against the daughter, and the daughter against the mother; the mother in law against her daughter in law, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.
God didn't come to solve the problem but His coming came and abbreviated the sin problem. No one is going to make me agree with them other than they solve their doctrinal problems because I choose to agree with the truth and those who don't want to work out their doctrine with me will have it worked out by the God-man who is Truth in the end because we will all give account to God:
Romans 14:12 So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God.
You can all be asked to give an account why you would rather fight about non-truth on annihilationism than reason for truth. You can be asked by a great number of things to account for. The end result is that you choose whether you want to believe His word or not believe His word or whether you actually reasoned for truth by those who know. The end result is that if people will love evil then they will love evil and no amount of apologetics will change that because if a person loves evil they are saying "no" to truth.