I have said it in this thread before, a lot of these verses must be taken in context of the culture and time.
As i said, some concepts in the bible are eternal, and unmovable.
Others, like in some specific instances when the NT discusses woman are to be understood in reference to the times.
Here is an example. If someone from today, with absolutely no knowledge of the struggle of black rights in this country read a short newspaper article from the 1950's in which it said: "City counsel votes to allow blacks to sit in the front of bus' ", the person from today's times would be appalled. He or she would say "they voted to permit a human being to ride in the front of a bus? Why would anyone need to vote on that? What was up with those people? "
But from our perspective and knowledge of history, we know that the vote to allow blacks to ride in the front of a bus was actually advancing the cause of their rights.
That is what Paul was proposing when he was speaking about woman being permitted to do this or that. Also, in some of the towns that Paul wrote, their was a heavy influence of pagan goddess worship, and the men of the church, along with some woman, thought it would be taken the wrong way if woman had to much involvement in the newly established Christian church. They thought that it may be misconstrued as some kind of cross religion mix with the pagan goddess idol worship going on in that day in areas of Greece.
So again, viewing the context of the times we live in, woman can preach, woman, in times of emergency can temporarily lead a church, woman can co-pastor a church under the leader ship of a man as a co-pastor. Woman can be junior pastors.
God does make concessions to the times we live in. It does not mean He is pleased with it, but He will allow certain things. He allowed a man after his own heart to have multiple wives. Clearly not Gods picture of a marriage relationship. But God permitted it.
Then there are the things in the bible which never change. Many things. That God will not make concessions to. They are eternal and immovable. Love, forgiveness, etc. are some of them. Men as the head of families and as the head of the church is another.