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Hmm, well. I would prefer a guy to just be himself. Flirting isn't necessary...in fact, I would greatly prefer the person DIDN'T flirt if that wasn't really who they are. "Be yourself...everyone else is already taken." 
Flirting isn't the goal, and it won't help you in a crisis; focus instead on being a person well-rooted in Christ with a strong relationship with him.
As for telling how to tell if someone is flirting with you...it is different with every person you meet. Some people could be really "flirty" and never mean a thing by it or even be aware that it is coming across that way, others even the most careful observer would barely be able to tell.
Flirting isn't the goal, and it won't help you in a crisis; focus instead on being a person well-rooted in Christ with a strong relationship with him.As for telling how to tell if someone is flirting with you...it is different with every person you meet. Some people could be really "flirty" and never mean a thing by it or even be aware that it is coming across that way, others even the most careful observer would barely be able to tell.
My minimal research indicates "dudette" has been acceptable since the early 1990's.
"Dudess" and "Dudine" are from around 1885 and 1883, respectively.
So, take that Old Timer!
"Dudess" and "Dudine" are from around 1885 and 1883, respectively.
So, take that Old Timer!
I was taken back by Vens's comment.
It sorta seemed to imply that if you're not cute, you can't flirt.
If that's what she is suggesting, there is still a lot of learning to be done for that 20 year old.
Fortunately, we don't all have the same perception of what's beautiful and attractive.
Also, in my case, I don't want to be called "cute". "Cute" is a word I associate with women. I can more easily accept "handsome" or "attractive" because they are at least masculine words to me.
It sorta seemed to imply that if you're not cute, you can't flirt.
If that's what she is suggesting, there is still a lot of learning to be done for that 20 year old.
Fortunately, we don't all have the same perception of what's beautiful and attractive.
Also, in my case, I don't want to be called "cute". "Cute" is a word I associate with women. I can more easily accept "handsome" or "attractive" because they are at least masculine words to me.
P.S- I'll try not to call you cute
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I was taken back by Vens's comment.
It sorta seemed to imply that if you're not cute, you can't flirt.
If that's what she is suggesting, there is still a lot of learning to be done for that 20 year old.
Fortunately, we don't all have the same perception of what's beautiful and attractive.
Also, in my case, I don't want to be called "cute". "Cute" is a word I associate with women. I can more easily accept "handsome" or "attractive" because they are at least masculine words to me.
It sorta seemed to imply that if you're not cute, you can't flirt.
If that's what she is suggesting, there is still a lot of learning to be done for that 20 year old.
Fortunately, we don't all have the same perception of what's beautiful and attractive.
Also, in my case, I don't want to be called "cute". "Cute" is a word I associate with women. I can more easily accept "handsome" or "attractive" because they are at least masculine words to me.
Flirting skills becomes automatic in times of emergency. That is when you meet someone you are really attracted to. I have no flirting skills and I dont assume when someone is flirting with me unless he makes it perfectly clear that he likes me because normally men are intimidated by me. I asked my ex why did he flirt with me, he said there was something sweet in the way I treated him. I said what? Really? I am actually not a sweet person. Maybe I learned how to flirt and be sweet when I needed to because I liked him.
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My minimal research indicates "dudette" has been acceptable since the early 1990's.
"Dudess" and "Dudine" are from around 1885 and 1883, respectively.
So, take that Old Timer!
"Dudess" and "Dudine" are from around 1885 and 1883, respectively.
So, take that Old Timer!
I am am younger then you are, and remember just because something is "execptable", does not make it right. ??????
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Flirting is very risky for guys.
Its ok for women to flirt though. For example a woman can say, "My what strong hands you have. I never would have been able to lift that myself." And the guy would just be like, "Thanks"
..but if I guy says something like, "My what beautiful eyes you have. I bet you can spot a whale from half a mile away." The girl might be like, "Get away from me creep!"
Its ok for women to flirt though. For example a woman can say, "My what strong hands you have. I never would have been able to lift that myself." And the guy would just be like, "Thanks"
..but if I guy says something like, "My what beautiful eyes you have. I bet you can spot a whale from half a mile away." The girl might be like, "Get away from me creep!"
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the only thing i can tell you from past experiences in my life I would stare at who you like or interested in sometimes and smile .. make conversation when you can with them and throw a compliment once in a while .. maybe ask for the number when you have enough courage after conversations but dont be like hey give me your number the first time take it slow .. have good timing
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Flirting is very risky for guys.
Its ok for women to flirt though. For example a woman can say, "My what strong hands you have. I never would have been able to lift that myself." And the guy would just be like, "Thanks"
..but if I guy says something like, "My what beautiful eyes you have. I bet you can spot a whale from half a mile away." The girl might be like, "Get away from me creep!"
Its ok for women to flirt though. For example a woman can say, "My what strong hands you have. I never would have been able to lift that myself." And the guy would just be like, "Thanks"
..but if I guy says something like, "My what beautiful eyes you have. I bet you can spot a whale from half a mile away." The girl might be like, "Get away from me creep!"
L O L !!!!!!