My terrible luck with girls is very potent. The last girlfriend I had was Wiccan....As you know that did not end well. My biggest problem is girls talk to me for only a little bit. They then stop talking (no explanation was given) and I never hear from them again. The few girls who don't (Which I'm talking to still) aren't the least bit interested in dating. I was thinking of upgrading my Christian Mingle account, but I checked and there are very few people close to me and its expensive. I'll probably end up paying a lot of money just for girls to ignore me. Any advice?
Struggle with finding the right (anyone actually) one.
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I am now walking with a friend who got remarried a little over a year ago. During the part of the ceremony where they say for better or worse she says...and mostly for the better. It was incredibly awkward and revealed a lot about her expectations. She asked him to leave this past Sunday. He uprooted himself and started over in a new place 1500 miles from his home. He is a great guy and humble. She is a high maintenance high expectation selfish person. As for me, I will never subject myself to a person who isn't emotionally secure, self sufficient and understands the value of low expectations. I may sound a little cynical when I say this but the norm for American women isn't appealing to me at all.
From the description, can I ask why your friend chose a woman like that in the first place?
I'm always dumbfounded by the fact that people (both men and women) seem blindsided by relationships that don't work out but it's like, Um... You knew what this person was about, and you chose to stay with them, so you really can't be all that surprised... (I'm smiling, too, because yes, my friends and family told ME this about my bombed relationships, too.)
So now I've just stayed single/out of relationships/in hermit mode.
I'm always dumbfounded by the fact that people (both men and women) seem blindsided by relationships that don't work out but it's like, Um... You knew what this person was about, and you chose to stay with them, so you really can't be all that surprised... (I'm smiling, too, because yes, my friends and family told ME this about my bombed relationships, too.)
So now I've just stayed single/out of relationships/in hermit mode.
From the description, can I ask why your friend chose a woman like that in the first place?
I'm always dumbfounded by the fact that people (both men and women) seem blindsided by relationships that don't work out but it's like, Um... You knew what this person was about, and you chose to stay with them, so you really can't be all that surprised... (I'm smiling, too, because yes, my friends and family told ME this about my bombed relationships, too.)
So now I've just stayed single/out of relationships/in hermit mode.
I'm always dumbfounded by the fact that people (both men and women) seem blindsided by relationships that don't work out but it's like, Um... You knew what this person was about, and you chose to stay with them, so you really can't be all that surprised... (I'm smiling, too, because yes, my friends and family told ME this about my bombed relationships, too.)
So now I've just stayed single/out of relationships/in hermit mode.
A great desire to be with someone makes us all put up with and overlook a lot of stupid things, huh?
I've often told God I wished He'd just do a spiritual lobotomy on my entire being (spiritual, mental, emotional) so that I couldn't be led astray anymore by pesky things like emotions and choices based on pain rather than common sense.
I've often told God I wished He'd just do a spiritual lobotomy on my entire being (spiritual, mental, emotional) so that I couldn't be led astray anymore by pesky things like emotions and choices based on pain rather than common sense.
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Dont people meet in the grocery store anymore? Why do we almost insist on "on-line" stuff? I'm not in a position to meet someone local, but that is by my own doing and I could change that if i wanted to. But right now, I don't think God wants me anywhere near a relationship so im just chilln. LOL
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