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of course it was a joke...
I don't smack people around here all the time....
my entire reason for posting here was because of YOU smacking the op around along with others
you are trying hard to insult me, and call me a narcisstic fascist
and you are the person who made this remark
I don't even get that much tongue on a date
in a thread on tongues...not the current thread
you have also made inappropriate remarks about womens' breasts
I think you are just angry because I ACCIDENTALY hit a nerve...I made no personal post to you other then where I used language that YOU consistently use...such as damn
my last post to you, so go ahead and spout off some more
truly...you may never hear what I have just stated so clear to you again....tell everyone else off utah...but you will not listen
last post..to you
Blue I agree with most all you said here. Im not wanting to argue or anything okay? I just want to say christians do not advocate sex out of marriage. She needed a dime between her knees and not a condom
Truly reborn again IN Christ adhere to Gods word which says to wait until the marriage bed
Truly reborn again IN Christ adhere to Gods word which says to wait until the marriage bed
I don't advocate sex before marriage. I simply meant if she had stopped to think about what she was doing, she probably wouldn't have done it.
I do still think she's just trolling us, though.
I don't advocate sex before marriage. I simply meant if she had stopped to think about what she was doing, she probably wouldn't have done it. I do still think she's just trolling us, though.
I do still think she's just trolling us, though.
I was right -- Planet Delusional. Show me where I smacked the OP around. I defended MultilingualMessenger, a wonderful sister in Christ, but I never judged the OP for her marital decisions.
As far as hitting a nerve, I'm dating LiJo, a beautiful woman of God who I met here on CC, and she is quickly becoming the love of my life. No, Ember, you've hit no nerve with me. Quite the opposite, I hit one with you, a glaring truth at that, and you keep coming around for more.
You prove time and again that you always need to have the last word so have at it. I'm done here; say what you want about me; have the last word because I know you won't sleep well without it.
As far as hitting a nerve, I'm dating LiJo, a beautiful woman of God who I met here on CC, and she is quickly becoming the love of my life. No, Ember, you've hit no nerve with me. Quite the opposite, I hit one with you, a glaring truth at that, and you keep coming around for more.
You prove time and again that you always need to have the last word so have at it. I'm done here; say what you want about me; have the last word because I know you won't sleep well without it.
At the risk of sounding judgmental...
You don't want anyone to advise getting a divorce because God doesn't like it and you don't believe in divorce, BUT you're willing to commit fornication by having sex with a man before you get married. Right?
Well, I wish you well. Just remember, God forgives us our sins, but He doesn't always take away the consequences to our sins.
Personally, I would advise you to go ahead and sign the divorce papers (perhaps you can get an annulment -- cheaper and less messy), and give your baby up for adoption. There are plenty of happily married, infertile couples who would love and take care of your baby.
Then you can begin again, unencumbered, and perhaps make wiser decisions in the future.
You don't want anyone to advise getting a divorce because God doesn't like it and you don't believe in divorce, BUT you're willing to commit fornication by having sex with a man before you get married. Right?
Well, I wish you well. Just remember, God forgives us our sins, but He doesn't always take away the consequences to our sins.
Personally, I would advise you to go ahead and sign the divorce papers (perhaps you can get an annulment -- cheaper and less messy), and give your baby up for adoption. There are plenty of happily married, infertile couples who would love and take care of your baby.
Then you can begin again, unencumbered, and perhaps make wiser decisions in the future.
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I was right -- Planet Delusional. Show me where I smacked the OP around. I defended MultilingualMessenger, a wonderful sister in Christ, but I never judged the OP for her marital decisions.
As far as hitting a nerve, I'm dating LiJo, a beautiful woman of God who I met here on CC, and she is quickly becoming the love of my life. No, Ember, you've hit no nerve with me. Quite the opposite, I hit one with you, a glaring truth at that, and you keep coming around for more.
You prove time and again that you always need to have the last word so have at it. I'm done here; say what you want about me; have the last word because I know you won't sleep well without it.
As far as hitting a nerve, I'm dating LiJo, a beautiful woman of God who I met here on CC, and she is quickly becoming the love of my life. No, Ember, you've hit no nerve with me. Quite the opposite, I hit one with you, a glaring truth at that, and you keep coming around for more.
You prove time and again that you always need to have the last word so have at it. I'm done here; say what you want about me; have the last word because I know you won't sleep well without it.
whatever comment you made was a joke and I took it as such...you simply liked the post...it was in reference to your sudden dislike and disgust of me...plus name calling...immature and hardly Christian
that, and the fact that on a good number of occasions past, you have complimented my posts
the nerve I was referring to, was the way you address other people..not who your current girlfriend is...I am married to a man who is far and above anything you could ever hope to be...
you have completely misunderstood my post BECAUSE of your own take on things
I did not address anything to you personally...YOU took it personally because I hit a nerve...you often call people names and are rude and condescending....I don't even post to you because of that
I re-read my original posts ... there was nothing in there for you to take exception to unless I hit a nerve
As far as planets go, we are not on the same one when it comes to what is important in this life
I never said you judged anyone...yet you defend yourself...so you know, there's that nerve again
you compared what I wrote to the op...that's just plain stupid...I have been married 16 years...I don't fool around and I was not pregnant when we married...
do you actually read what others write, or do you close your eyes and type?
get over the girlfriend nonsense...it says volumes that you think I was referring to dating or you and I...that is what is in YOUR noggin....NOT mine...some of us have other interests besides our current flavor of the month attraction
now really, let's mean it this time when we say no more
one more time though...I never thought you had any interest in me...I certainly have none in you...get it this time...we are not even talking about the same thing
'utter childish nonsense
ta ta
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I'm not saying what you did was wrong. It looks right to me too. BUT we were friends for a couple of months, he finally had the guts to ask me out on a date, and when he dropped me off, he didn't just drop me off. We talked in the car for three hours. Two of those hours was his entire life story (including the ex, the two kids, the really crappy end of a divorce settlement, and everything he did that he believed he screwed up by doing -- and I agree some of it was poor choices on his part) and one hour of me telling him my story. The biggest thing I remember him saying was he wasn't out to just date. He knew he was the kind of guy who needed to be married, so he was looking for a wife.
I was NOT looking for a husband.
I still called Dad at 1 AM, after going in my apartment to let him know I just found the guy I would marry. But HE would ask me to marry him.
Except he didn't. A week later, I was asking him where our pots and pans would go in our apartment, and he explained it to me. I paused and asked him when we decided to get married and he told me two days before I brought it up, scared him to death, but he went home, thought it over for a day, and came back knowing we would.
We "burned," but I still held off the wedding until after my oldest brother was married, since he got engaged nine months before I even met hubby, and it felt like the wise thing to do. "Burn" wise, it wasn't. We should have married within a month, three tops, BUT we talked all about our lives and openly showed the other all our faults. (Only man I know who could make a bed before going to sleep and then the next morning all his sheets -- tops, fitted, and pillowcase -- were on the floor. Hey, he was living in our adopted parent's house. He was adopted by them at 32 after his divorce and after his roommate got married. I adopted them while we dated. lol And they didn't like watching the Flyers, even if they were in the playoffs, so we watched in his bedroom -- door open and full liberty that those wonderful people could, and would, come up at any time, so we were covered. I refused to clean my apartment when he was coming over, so he got to see how bad I am with housekeeping. We're a good match as far as slobs go. lol)
If I had given in to God's will, instead of trying to be nice to brother, we should have been married within three months, not seven months. BUT we really, really got to know each other quickly, plus we were friends first.
Long or short time before marriage, it's still important to really really know the person. And, unless you're telling your entire life story while having sex, that's not happening on a first date when you are spending that date having sex. (And you're doing something wrong if you are talking that much too while...)
I was NOT looking for a husband.
I still called Dad at 1 AM, after going in my apartment to let him know I just found the guy I would marry. But HE would ask me to marry him.
Except he didn't. A week later, I was asking him where our pots and pans would go in our apartment, and he explained it to me. I paused and asked him when we decided to get married and he told me two days before I brought it up, scared him to death, but he went home, thought it over for a day, and came back knowing we would.
We "burned," but I still held off the wedding until after my oldest brother was married, since he got engaged nine months before I even met hubby, and it felt like the wise thing to do. "Burn" wise, it wasn't. We should have married within a month, three tops, BUT we talked all about our lives and openly showed the other all our faults. (Only man I know who could make a bed before going to sleep and then the next morning all his sheets -- tops, fitted, and pillowcase -- were on the floor. Hey, he was living in our adopted parent's house. He was adopted by them at 32 after his divorce and after his roommate got married. I adopted them while we dated. lol And they didn't like watching the Flyers, even if they were in the playoffs, so we watched in his bedroom -- door open and full liberty that those wonderful people could, and would, come up at any time, so we were covered. I refused to clean my apartment when he was coming over, so he got to see how bad I am with housekeeping. We're a good match as far as slobs go. lol)
If I had given in to God's will, instead of trying to be nice to brother, we should have been married within three months, not seven months. BUT we really, really got to know each other quickly, plus we were friends first.
Long or short time before marriage, it's still important to really really know the person. And, unless you're telling your entire life story while having sex, that's not happening on a first date when you are spending that date having sex. (And you're doing something wrong if you are talking that much too while...)
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Well, first of all, you didn't have sex with a guy you didn't even know. Second, YOUR marriage worked out. Her marriage probably won't work out, but her and the baby can hopefully move on to something better. And also, you probably didn't come on a public forum only to say that people's opinions of your situation didn't matter to you, or get nasty to others if they told you truth. I DO hope something good comes out of this for ALL of them.
Her marriage probably won't work out, but her and the baby can hopefully move on to something better. And also, you probably didn't come on a public forum only to say that people's opinions of your situation didn't matter to you, or get nasty to others if they told you truth. I DO hope something good comes out of this for ALL of them.
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If God wasn't planning on Jonah's side trip, that huge fish wouldn't have been under that ship at the right time and wouldn't have puked out Jonah on to the shores of Nineveh at the moment when Jonah was ready.
The first time God told Moses to go to the Pharaoh, it was God's plan to take his people to the Promise Land. It sure wasn't Moses' plan, or the Pharaoh's. God even had a hand in Pharaoh fighting the plan.
No, if it happens, God plans it.
The first time God told Moses to go to the Pharaoh, it was God's plan to take his people to the Promise Land. It sure wasn't Moses' plan, or the Pharaoh's. God even had a hand in Pharaoh fighting the plan.
No, if it happens, God plans it.
Actually, I figured out you were a fraud in your first post. Your story is inconsistent and you clearly don't know how pregnancy tests work. If you tested positive 2 weeks after intercoursr which you claim
was day 12 of your missed period that would mean you were on or about to be on your period. Very unlikely to be fertile at that stage.
was day 12 of your missed period that would mean you were on or about to be on your period. Very unlikely to be fertile at that stage.
God is showing you how soft christians hearts are and that they are willing to help and give you the truth as it pertains to the situation.Did you expect perfect out of reborn again IN Christ humans? We wont see perfect until we are glorified sweety. We are all still being perfected into the image of Christ as it stands Btw, you really are in no position to judge if your story is true. If your story isnt true and you came here to get a good laugh;that makes you a lying troll who came here to stir up strife.
Btw, you really are in no position to judge if your story is true. If your story isnt true and you came here to get a good laugh;that makes you a lying troll who came here to stir up strife.