- Eros, which is sexual or romantic love.
- Phileo, which is a brotherly love toward someone we really like.
- Agape, which is the deepest love, which is based on doing good things for another person.
These are different words used in the bible for love. When jesus gave us the law of Love, he wasn't talking about Eros, he was talking about the other two.
Let us also be reminded of the definition of love given by the bible:
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.
5It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.
6Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
7It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
9For we know in part and we prophesy in part,
10but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
11When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me.
12Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
13And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.
Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. The Truth is, from scripture, which is given o you several times before hand, that homosexuality is wrong. If you are delighting in the wrong, you are not truly loving someone.
I'm not bias on what is love and what isn't. I have scripture that says, love does not delight in wrong, but in truth, and I have scripture that says homosexuality is evil. These are not my opinions, these are facts. Remember, the holy spirit will not guide you in things that are not scripturally sound...so perhaps you are being led by something else?