I am only looking for girls that are virgins as potential for someone to marry.
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Aw, you edited your OP and now my first comment doesn't make any sense. 
Seriously though, you do what you feel is right. No, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a virgin for a wife and sticking to those standards. I do feel that at your age, this limits your choices drastically. I also feel that when choosing a mate, their virginity is not even a percentage as important as their character, spiritual life or compatibility with you.
She will only be a virgin until your wedding night. After that it isn't going to matter at all. So this would not be my criteria for choosing a spouse.
I understand there's more to it than that, for you. However... later when you look back on it, you might find that it wasn't as important as you felt it was at this moment. But in the end, of course it's fine for you to want a virgin for your wife.
Seriously though, you do what you feel is right. No, there's absolutely nothing wrong with wanting a virgin for a wife and sticking to those standards. I do feel that at your age, this limits your choices drastically. I also feel that when choosing a mate, their virginity is not even a percentage as important as their character, spiritual life or compatibility with you.
She will only be a virgin until your wedding night. After that it isn't going to matter at all. So this would not be my criteria for choosing a spouse.
I understand there's more to it than that, for you. However... later when you look back on it, you might find that it wasn't as important as you felt it was at this moment. But in the end, of course it's fine for you to want a virgin for your wife.
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Good.
I wonder though, if you meet a woman you like, how do you intend to find out if she is a virgin?
I'd get quite offended if a man asked me that
(there are plenty of non- virgin men who want a virgin because it makes them feel manly, and the woman you meet cannot know whether you are really a virgin)
I wonder though, if you meet a woman you like, how do you intend to find out if she is a virgin?
I'd get quite offended if a man asked me that
(there are plenty of non- virgin men who want a virgin because it makes them feel manly, and the woman you meet cannot know whether you are really a virgin)
Waiting until marriage is a wonderful thing. But, you have acknowledged that you have done things you are ashamed of. And thats great. But do you really think its fair to expect the woman you get with to be perfect when you yourself are not? Maybe you shouldnt focus on her past and focus more on who she is now. We have all fallen to sin, and being a virgin wont make a woman a "better wife".
Is my two cents anyway.
Is my two cents anyway.
I don't think it's unrealistic that he would find a Virgin at his age or the age group he's looking for. If he's involved with a church and meets like minded people his chances are good. There are also people who are virgin's well into their 30's. It's not impossible.
You can edit your profile and change your age.
You can edit your profile and change your age.
Lemme get this straight. You create a thread asking if girls would give you a chance even though you have a porn addiction. You put your age as 38, even though you're actually 28, and now all of a sudden you want an 18- plus year old virgin? If a grown woman won't give you a chance, what makes you think an 18 year old CHILD would? Not to mention I find it creepy that you're 28 and want an 18 year old child as your gf.. JMO
A long time ago, we had a male poster here in Singles who was extremely adamant about marrying ONLY a virgin someday. It didn't matter to him if she had been abused, he wanted ONLY a "true", untouched virgin.
After some pressing, he later admitted that his biggest reason for this was his own insecurity--he was afraid of being compared to ANY of the partners a woman may have had before him--and not measuring up or being as "good" as anyone else, whether in size, skill, or both.
I'm not saying this applies to the OP or anyone else who demands only pure, snow-white virgins as potential...
But it always reminds me of that very honest answer from that former male poster.
After some pressing, he later admitted that his biggest reason for this was his own insecurity--he was afraid of being compared to ANY of the partners a woman may have had before him--and not measuring up or being as "good" as anyone else, whether in size, skill, or both.
I'm not saying this applies to the OP or anyone else who demands only pure, snow-white virgins as potential...
But it always reminds me of that very honest answer from that former male poster.
I think that if a man s heart is corrupt (without fear of the Lord) and he allows himself to look at a woman with sexual desire, that is for me the same as to kiss her or whatever other touch (using human body parts) can be described for between humans. So surely u r not virgin in Jesus eyes too, my friend.