Scripture says "he who finds a wife finds a good thing"...never does it say 'she who finds a husband"... we are told also that woman was made for man not man for woman..therefore, there is no need for us to pursue a man....but a man may pursue us...
all that comes from a woman pursuing a man or making a man pursue them is control....
I tell all my single guy friends, if a woman is pursuing you, run and I have never been wrong.
We are the treasure ladies, We are called a gift to men....
a men know how to hunt treasure...
I once met a woman in a restaurant when I used to be a server and she , a stranger took one look at me (she didn't know me.. I never spoke to her...and though I had never actually chased a man, I tried to make things happen with a couple of them...)....she said to me "honey... never ever pursue a man... you are the treasure, the gift.. let them pursue you!" .
Men were made to be hunters...they don't need help knowing how to do that...
if a shy man wants you...he knows how to make his desire known... and you can let him know you are interested..if need be..but since the men are to be the leaders, let them lead..
Even Ruth...though her mother in law told her to go put herself in the line of site for Boaz, and she was only obeying what she was told, never did it on her own..
and since Boaz , an old man didn't think Ruth would be interested in him, God knew this and knew she would obey Naomi...
Its very important we leave things in order...
and remember who we are...and the role we need to be in...
all that comes from a woman pursuing a man or making a man pursue them is control....
I tell all my single guy friends, if a woman is pursuing you, run and I have never been wrong.
We are the treasure ladies, We are called a gift to men....
a men know how to hunt treasure...
I once met a woman in a restaurant when I used to be a server and she , a stranger took one look at me (she didn't know me.. I never spoke to her...and though I had never actually chased a man, I tried to make things happen with a couple of them...)....she said to me "honey... never ever pursue a man... you are the treasure, the gift.. let them pursue you!" .
Men were made to be hunters...they don't need help knowing how to do that...
if a shy man wants you...he knows how to make his desire known... and you can let him know you are interested..if need be..but since the men are to be the leaders, let them lead..
Even Ruth...though her mother in law told her to go put herself in the line of site for Boaz, and she was only obeying what she was told, never did it on her own..
and since Boaz , an old man didn't think Ruth would be interested in him, God knew this and knew she would obey Naomi...
Its very important we leave things in order...
and remember who we are...and the role we need to be in...
That is not the kind of pursuing that is meant by the line everyone wants to be pursued. Generally, everyone wants to feel valued. A woman who pursues a man that way is usually taken advantaged by men who have no integrity. But a good woman knows how to pursue a man the Godly way.
