Presi: The bible tells us that we can marry whoever we want to as long as it is in the Lord. The command from God to a single person is, that they must marry another Christian(a real Christian), after that the choice is yours, that is the word of God on marriage from the New Testament. So why would someone believe that God told them who to marry when the word of God has said that God has given that decision to the individual, with the exception that they must marry another Christian. I went through a period of time as a Christian when I would say, God told me this or that. That was many years ago and I have found over time that God rarely speaks to us except through His word and that it is very dangerous to be listening for a voice, as it were from God, to guide us.
Sam, there are exceptions tho, as I have heard HIS audible Voice two times in my life. Both times it was a simple command, and the muscles in my body reacted to HIS voice instantly without even thinking about it. The first time was one word, back in the early 80's and the second time was three words in the mid 90's.
The first time was when my wife was in a drug rehab center for addiction to pain pills. The week before she went in, my wife was Healed in answer to prayer with ASOLUTELY NO WITHDRAWAL SYMPTOMS. When I told her Doctor that, he said "If you believe that, you are either a fool or a liar, because I know how many pills she was taking." I figured out real quick, that the Doctor was not a Christian. Then he ordered her to go the rehab center anyhow, and yes he had money in that center as part owner. One day I got called in to that center for a so-called group therapy session. They immediately started picking on us about our Faith, and when we tried to tell them that she was healed, the picking turned into VICIOUS RIDICULE. It was at that moment this booming Voice said in my head,
"WALK!" My muscles reacted to that voice without thinking, and it was almost as if the chair had instantly become electrified. By the time I could think, I found myself on my feet, and as I looked over at my wife, she was standing also. I asked her, "Are you Ready?"; and she said YES. Once we gathered her things and got to my vehicle, I noticed a tire was flat. As I hurriedly was changing the tire, and as I was tightening the last two Lug Nuts, I finally asked her: "Did you hear anything in there?" She said: "Yes, just one word, . . .
"WALK!" I replied: "THAT'S IT, WE ARE OUT OF HERE!"
The second time I heard HIS booming Voice, HE scared the daylights out of me. I was driving back to Nebraska from the California Coast near Oregon, to pick up three of our Grand-kids to come out for a Summer Vacation. I had to break it up with two nights in motels. The first night I stopped in Elko, NV. In the morning after breakfast, I was pulling onto the I-80 on-ramp accelerating as I noticed a hitchhiker standing almost on the edge of the road. I swung wide to go around him as I approached interstate speed. SUDDENLY, there came that same booming Voice in my head, that I heard over a decade earlier. HE yelled:
"PICK HIM UP!" My muscles reacted INSTANTLY once again, and I had the brakes on as hard as I could, with all four wheels screaming as they slid to a stop on the side of the road. I was still shaking like a leaf, when the hitchhiker came running up to the car, opened the passenger side door, and asked: "Are you giving me a ride?" I replied, "YOU GET IN THIS CAR, BECAUSE GOD JUST TOLD ME TO PICK YOU UP!" To make a long story short, he rode with me all day, and I had the joy of leading him to the Lord. He even excitedly listened to about three hours of Bible Teaching tapes on the Book of Revelation, and I gave him all ten of those tapes that I had with me, before he got out to go to south to Denver at Laramie, WY.
Does that make me special? NO! That makes me the dummy that HE had to yell at, to stop me from doing what HE did not want me to continue doing.