Heh well then it is quite fitting to the topic (marriage to foreigners not going exactly how you envision it). Lol
Looking For a Foreign Wife? May I Humbly Submit Some Realities to Consider...
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Heh well then it is quite fitting to the topic (marriage to foreigners not going exactly how you envision it). Lol
Some men take that to mean that the wife is now their personal slave that must be ready to serve their every wish and desire. Also, the opinion of the wife is not sought or valued.
The bible says also for husbands to loves their wives.
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Well just a quick reply, not wanting to go too far off topic. The good son submits to the Father. The good wife submits to the husband. All is aligned and in harmony in this case. The hidden things of God are seen in nature.
Ever consider that joining a forum, and immediately doing every conceivable thing a troll would do, would lead people to conclude you're a troll?
Go ahead.
Participate in the forum like a normal person.
Please, prove me wrong.
Here is a list of things that will make you look less like a troll... just trying to help you:
1. Change your avatar to something other than the President Elect... that's just weird.
(It immediately makes you look like a troll or activist, and not a normal forum member).
2. Stop posting links to Trump's twitter account... that's just weird.
It's pretty easy to find Trump's twitter account, if anyone wants it.
Doing this, again, just makes you look like a political troll.
3. Stop using so much outrageous hyperbole about Trump, as if you worship him... that's just weird.
That doesn't fly on a Christian forum.
Worshipping another human actually offends us.
4. Try engaging in normal Christian threads, on normal topics, and discussing normal Christian issues of biblical doctrine and morality.
This social thread here about "foreign women" doesn't cut it... this doesn't show anyone you know anything about the bible.
Good luck.
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Lol I'm not falling for your trolling "Advice" Mr. Pharisee you all ready showed me your true colors. I ain't stupid. You don't get to dictate what my avatar is or what I post. So let's get that straight right now.
1. Back to answering me with RIDICULE.
This is, again, a tactic used by trolls and political activists.
Trolls and activists don't discuss things logically, point by point... they go straight to ridicule.
2. Accusing me of saying things I never said.
Accusing people of saying things they never said, instead of dealing with things factually, is creating a straw man... this is also done by trolls and political activists.
Specifically: I am being accused of "dictating" (which means to DEMAND, or ORDER) that Eloseus must change his avatar.
I never ordered him to do anything at all, I simply made a list of suggestions that would make him seem less like a troll.
3. I made a list of suggestions that would make Eloseus appear more like a normal CC member, and less like a troll, and he refused my help and answered my helpful advice with ridicule:
A. He started back with insults and ridicule... he could have just thanked me for helping him to fit in.
B. He REFUSED to do anything to make him look less trollish... apparently meaning he INTENDS to look and act like a troll... I guess.
4. If I give a guy some suggestions to help him fit in, and his response is to insult me, create straw man arguments, and refuse all of my helpful suggestions to fit in ( apparently with the intention of NOT fitting in) ... people can draw their own conclusions.
I've played with him enough today.
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Lol aww I won't let you dictate to me and bully me around. Now his commands to stop this and that and to change this and that are just suggestions. Hilarious. Back to your safe space now. Seems the pretty girl from India agrees with me a lot, you must have a rep here Mr. Pharisee.
Here's some advice in kind. Don't push around new members, sooner or later one will push back.
Hey I ain't gonna take Mr. Pharisee's snide and false accusations sitting down. I know Jesus didn't let them get away with it when he first entered the community and they flung all manner of slander at him too.
I'm out of time to play with you for today.
But if you have something for me... by all means... bring it on.
Hugs.
Hi Em!
Well apparently, this thread is headed straight down the garbage chute
, but I had actually intended to talk about mixed race/culture/country marriages and the challenges they face...
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renewed_hope
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I've got a better idea. Why don't you treat others the way you want to be treated?
Tried that. He don't want grace, he wants the law, so I'll lay it down.
We can start new anytime like I said. But I'll eye for the eye and tooth for the tooth til then. You gotta stand up to bullies or else they will think they own you.
Lets see if i can get this discussion back on track. One potential flash point I see is child rearing and the discipline of children. Without dragging this out into a long discussion in the pros and cons of spanking etc.. You will find that, having been brought up as children in very different worlds the couple may have rather different rule books when it comes to issues like discipline and mentoring their children.