I think to many worry about emotions or emotional reaction. And if we do not feel sorry, then you have not repented.
In the military, you do not have time to feel sorry for your mistake, You get up. Adit you did wrong, and move on. Thats what we should do. Admit we made an error. We sinned, and move on,, Dwelling on sin is what keeps people back.
What if mainly we are our emotional reaction to things.
Emotions summarise where we are at the moment and how we feel about it.
Sin is not some minor issue, it is a massive wrong focus, a fundamental flaw in relationship,
love, care and attention. If sin shows itself, we need to find out why we are so blind,
and ask ourselves what has lead up to it. We need most of all the Lords perspective, His
healing and purity, forgiveness, and love working. So dismiss sin, is often the very reason
we we commit it, oh it is nothing, minor, gone and forgotten. Purity is about perfection,
no spot, no wrinkle, no stain. So nothing in minor. The lake of fire is full of people who
think sin is minor.