Why I now believe in Predistination/Election

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Why do you hate this woman so much, Utah?
How is it that you think you know her heart?
You keep talking about her hatred while saying hateful things.
And I haven't seen her say hateful things in here to you.
I see the hateful things coming out of your mouth, not hers.
And now you are judging her outwardly, by her smoking of cigarettes?
I wish you would stop doing this harm to yourself.
Did she say something in the past that hurt you...?
I enjoy picking on soft-spoken, tender-hearted women. If Lynn was more outspoken, obnoxious and hateful and if she judged me as not being Christian, then I'd leave her alone. But like I said, I prey on the weak ones. **shaking head** :rolleyes:
 
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I agree....The enemy comes and says - "This is for others - it is not for you or your family"
Yup, the enemy is crafty, sly, subtle and is always on the lookout for another victim to exploit. No doubt folks got To walk with eyes n ears open everyday.
 
Dec 28, 2016
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P4T, I've been thinking about those 4 phrases (now that I know what they mean :))

If your faith saved you, how is it possible that it came from you?
We look at it as pride to say it came from you, by your own choice.
They see it as prideful to say it didn't come from you, from your own choice.
Well, of course faith is the gift of God, so all the glory goes to Him for all these things.

My three "solas" show the absurdity of thinking we get any of the glory, all of the glory, and/or that God only gets some of the glory.

Of course Soli Deo Gloria is the true sola, as all glory goes to Him and Him alone. :)

For some to say that since we teach, and believe, that God chose us, that it is prideful to believe this is frankly absurd. That truth is humbling and bewildering since it is coupled with the knowledge of our own wickedness and sin.
 
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Yes, but did you disagree as you do now, respectfully, or did you do it as you used to do in the past, which was brutal and made us all fear speaking with you?

Because if he is holding a grudge for the way you spoke to him in the past, that is very dangerous for him, and you should do all you can to make amends so that he won't go on in the harm of unforgiveness. God has blessed you and given you control of your tongue. A lot of prayers of thanks have gone up for how He has blessed you because all have seen your improvement and blessing in this. Use that blessing well. Try to make peace. Then, if he insists on not forgiving, you will have done all that is required to make peace and the ball is in his court.

I marvel all the time over how I used to fear speaking with you and now I love to speak with you. I go searching for your posts now. :)
I don't hold grudges. I already told you I meet people where they are. No biggy, really.
 
Nov 12, 2015
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I enjoy picking on soft-spoken, tender-hearted women. If Lynn was more outspoken, obnoxious and hateful and if she judged me as not being Christian, then I'd leave her alone. But like I said, I prey on the weak ones. **shaking head** :rolleyes:
I have not seen her say anything hateful to you in here. I saw the hateful things coming from your mouth in those two posts. Which is why I thought this was coming from some other thread I was not privy to. I saw no hatefulness or obnoxiousness from her. But I've picked up some clues that it might have to do with political affiliations or arguments...
 
Feb 24, 2015
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This is what must happen - this "god" goes around and picks and chooses people and says - Heaven for you. It's hell for you. Heaven for you. It's hell for you. It's heaven for you. It's hell for you...etc.
Does a farmer go round a field at harvest time and say, oh poor carrot, you are rotten, useless
and moldy, I will take you in. No it gets thrown on the scrap heap.

Now God is the one declaring before the beginning of time he predestined the elect.
The point has always been He is the one who chooses, He is the one who judges.

Strangely you want everything to be of God, God does everything in salvation and
man does nothing. Now you are saying man chooses and God presents everything
so man will be justly condemned for not choosing Christ.

Now I was told by you guys I was heretical suggesting man partakes in salvation by
responding to God and His gift of Christ, and without this response salvation is not
possible. You said this was wrong, and mocked me.

Now you appear to be saying it is the sinners choice to follow Christ or not, without
God quickening. So people are involved in salvation, yet you denied this not that
long ago. Seems to me I am more consistent in my beliefs than you guys are.
 
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I don't hold grudges. I already told you I meet people where they are. No biggy, really.
You cut her to pieces, very meanly, in two posts, Utah.
And you were the one who judged her by saying you have more faith in your little toe than she has in her entire body. So it sounds like you were the one calling her unchristian rather than the other way around.
You have brought some resentment from elsewhere because she has not treated you badly in here.
You should resolve it so as not to harm yourself but that's a decision you will have to make.
 
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Then we should change it to saved by grace through my own choice, and that choice of myself so I can boast that I am going to heaven because of my wise choice and others are going to hell because of their unwise choice. :D
Stinking thinking, just because you choose to have faith in Jesus doesn't mean you have to boast about going to heaven how did you come up with that idea, seems there's alittle figure sitting on your shoulder. Jesus isn't going to say Yo choose me choose me nor is he going to give into you and give it to you, you've got to make that choice on your own...
 

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1 Corinthians 12:3 (KJV) Wherefore I give you to understand, that no man speaking by the Spirit of God calleth Jesus accursed: and that no man can say that Jesus is the Lord, but by the Holy Ghost.

The only way for someone to put their trust in Christ is through the holy spirit doing a supernatural work in their hearts, such is the nature of man.

Romans 3:11 (KJV) There is none that understandeth, there is none that seeketh after God.


It's God's mercy that saves, everyone is born with a sinful nature and everyone is born condemned already so God is not less just for saving some and let others go about their sinful busines, it's his grace that saves some, the elect.
God is sovereign to choose according to His infinite wisdom and knowledge, he's an eternal God, how am I to know how he chooses? To me it's always been by grace, and I don't know how we explain grace if not by unmerited favor.
Amen Brother, until one understands the weight of their sin they will never understand why God has to save them by His grace, because we do no good, this good isn't walking an old lady across the street, it's good as in how Jesus responded to the rich young ruler. "Why do you call me good, there's One that is Good" that's the kind of good that is being talked about, not the I gave 5 bucks to a homeless person type of good, because that good is toward man not towards God.

When I see someone post what do you mean no one does good, people do good all the time. That's by mans standard not God's.
 

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Then we should change it to saved by grace through my own choice, and that choice of myself so I can boast that I am going to heaven because of my wise choice and others are going to hell because of their unwise choice. :D
I know you aren't that clueless are you? SMH

But if that's how you wanna play it I guess we should say...I know I'm going to heaven because I'm special and God chose me...He only chooses the best in the bunch so I must be one of the best...He couldn't live without me and that's why I am elected and other aren't. They just ain't worth it, but I am :rolleyes:
 
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I have not seen her say anything hateful to you in here. I saw the hateful things coming from your mouth in those two posts. Which is why I thought this was coming from some other thread I was not privy to. I saw no hatefulness or obnoxiousness from her. But I've picked up some clues that it might have to do with political affiliations or arguments...
If you're not familiar with her overall harsh tone since day one then I don't know what to say to you. Blind leading the blind comes to mind, though I know your heart is in the right place. Anyway, her psychosis is not the focus of this thread. If you want to indulge more on everyone's personality traits then start a new thread. I'll be happy to partake.
 
Nov 12, 2015
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Well, of course faith is the gift of God, so all the glory goes to Him for all these things.

My three "solas" show the absurdity of thinking we get any of the glory, all of the glory, and/or that God only gets some of the glory.

Of course Soli Deo Gloria is the true sola, as all glory goes to Him and Him alone. :)

For some to say that since we teach, and believe, that God chose us, that it is prideful to believe this is frankly absurd. That truth is humbling and bewildering since it is coupled with the knowledge of our own wickedness and sin.
Yes, it seems to me like He made this vein of thought impossible by saying and even that faith was not of yourselves so no man can boast it was of them. But I think that they think it is referring back only to the grace...
 
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I know you aren't that clueless are you? SMH

But if that's how you wanna play it I guess we should say...I know I'm going to heaven because I'm special and God chose me...He only chooses the best in the bunch so I must be one of the best...He couldn't live without me and that's why I am elected and other aren't. They just ain't worth it, but I am :rolleyes:
The problem here is simple. Those who have not found out how truly lost man
is, in his thinking, his logic, his conclusions, his morality, his love, his ideas for joy
and dislike of sadness, then you choosing God is really possible.

When you know everything we are and do and think is distorted and in rebellion,
then you begin to see how impossible it is for anyone to grasp who Jesus is without
His touch. And this is all we testify to, not that we understand or the why, but
that our Lord is glorious and we praise Him.

The fact you do not know this, is just your reality, I just testify there is more than
you can imagine involved. God bless you.
 
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If you're not familiar with her overall harsh tone since day one then I don't know what to say to you. Blind leading the blind comes to mind, though I know your heart is in the right place. Anyway, her psychosis is not the focus of this thread. If you want to indulge more on everyone's personality traits then start a new thread. I'll be happy to partake.
I'm not indulging on personality traits. I am concerned about what you're resentment and anger is doing to you. And I used to be terrified to speak with her, but she has grown in love and humility and respect. You are not seeing that growth because your grudge is blinding you to it. You should forgive her. 70x7. For the sake of YOUR growth. I'm not indulging. I'm caring for you.
 
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Does a farmer go round a field at harvest time and say, oh poor carrot, you are rotten, useless
and moldy, I will take you in. No it gets thrown on the scrap heap.

Now God is the one declaring before the beginning of time he predestined the elect.
The point has always been He is the one who chooses, He is the one who judges.

Strangely you want everything to be of God, God does everything in salvation and
man does nothing. Now you are saying man chooses and God presents everything
so man will be justly condemned for not choosing Christ.

Now I was told by you guys I was heretical suggesting man partakes in salvation by
responding to God and His gift of Christ, and without this response salvation is not
possible. You said this was wrong, and mocked me.

Now you appear to be saying it is the sinners choice to follow Christ or not, without
God quickening. So people are involved in salvation, yet you denied this not that
long ago. Seems to me I am more consistent in my beliefs than you guys are.
Just saying,,, it's a good thing the farmer aka father of the prodigal Son didn't think this. look at him spent all his money on nothing has nothing and is eating slop what a rotten sack of nothing throw him out with the garbage.
 
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I know you aren't that clueless are you? SMH

But if that's how you wanna play it I guess we should say...I know I'm going to heaven because I'm special and God chose me...He only chooses the best in the bunch so I must be one of the best...He couldn't live without me and that's why I am elected and other aren't. They just ain't worth it, but I am :rolleyes:
Except you aren't using my thoughts or words to say that. I didn't say that. I didn't say He chose me because I'm special. I said He chose me - the rest you attached on as if I believe it, but I don't.

But what I said we should change it too IS based on what you have said. You've been saved by grace through your choice.
Even though it says that faith was not of yourself.

I know this is difficult stuff to struggle with together. I appreciate your honest speech and that you don't get angry. :)
 
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Just saying,,, it's a good thing the farmer aka father of the prodigal Son didn't think this. look at him spent all his money on nothing has nothing and is eating slop what a rotten sack of nothing throw him out with the garbage.

If we are creating and maintaining or own self-righteousness then the mindset that says " what a rotten sack of nothing throw him out with the garbage." - then makes perfect sense to them because they are busy with their own righteousness being establishing. It is not the gospel of the grace of God in Christ.
 
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Does a farmer go round a field at harvest time and say, oh poor carrot, you are rotten, useless
and moldy, I will take you in. No it gets thrown on the scrap heap.

Now God is the one declaring before the beginning of time he predestined the elect.
The point has always been He is the one who chooses, He is the one who judges.

Strangely you want everything to be of God, God does everything in salvation and
man does nothing. Now you are saying man chooses and God presents everything
so man will be justly condemned for not choosing Christ.

Now I was told by you guys I was heretical suggesting man partakes in salvation by
responding to God and His gift of Christ, and without this response salvation is not
possible. You said this was wrong, and mocked me.

Now you appear to be saying it is the sinners choice to follow Christ or not, without
God quickening. So people are involved in salvation, yet you denied this not that
long ago. Seems to me I am more consistent in my beliefs than you guys are.
He says He will show mercy to who He will show mercy to.
And He says, Jacob I loved but Esau I hated.
And He says if He makes one vessel for honor and one for dishonor, the vessel should not question why.
It's a hard thing to accept that some will not be saved. It's hard to wonder why He saved me but others will perish. But I cannot blame them as if all I have hasn't come from God just to try to deal with the sorrow.
 
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God is sovereign to choose according to His infinite wisdom and knowledge, he's an eternal God, how am I to know how he chooses? To me it's always been by grace, and I don't know how we explain grace if not by unmerited favor.

but if it is unmerited, how come some do get it?
If I have two kids, and they both misbehave, and the standard punishment for what they did is "no candy", I don't give candy to one of them.
 
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Well, of course faith is the gift of God, so all the glory goes to Him for all these things.

My three "solas" show the absurdity of thinking we get any of the glory, all of the glory, and/or that God only gets some of the glory.

Of course Soli Deo Gloria is the true sola, as all glory goes to Him and Him alone. :)

For some to say that since we teach, and believe, that God chose us, that it is prideful to believe this is frankly absurd. That truth is humbling and bewildering since it is coupled with the knowledge of our own wickedness and sin.
I had another thought on this.
If the faith was our own, simply that we choose to believe, why did the man say, Lord, I DO believe, please help my Unbelief!