Hi Amazing Grace, nice to meet you, you wear His name well. The first thought to share with you is, "All manner of sin shall be forgiven to man but rejecting the Holy Spirit shall not be forgiven to man. Without Him we can't (or is it Her, "The Spirit and the bride say, come and drink of the water of Life freely." No mater there is no gender in Spirit like on earth.)
About your question, noticed you have it answered, but about those who go to hell, we have all been there, it's where life does not make sense, "If I make my bed in hell, Lord you are there." We fall, to find Him in our deepest need. I suggest you don't take the care of those, in your hands as He already has the whole world in His hands, find rest concerning this. I feel more sorry for those judging and suspect you do as well. I was in hell Saturday over desiring a worldly woman as an idol (Not in person) a humbling experience, even the church meting on Sunday was barely enough to revive me. Today had a god day.