How can you really really really know you are saved?

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How does this address the question at hand?
It shows that you likely aren't doing all you can to love God. So why on Earth would you think you should even think He would save you? I guess you were never really serious about any of this, were you?
 

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this all rests ultimately on faith in God's own faithfulness: on trusting the Father and the work of the Son.

assuming that the gospel is understood, anyone who doubts the Lord's faithfulness to keep the word He has spoken and to do all His will is going to doubt their own salvation in at least equal measure.

i am as fully assured that He will complete what He has begun in me as i am assured that He does not fail to complete His will.
 
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I ask you to give me the post number and your answer is "there were many, did you not read them they were pretty self explanatory"??
I know how you feel. There is a guy on here who claimed I "assassinated his character", and he can't even show me when or where I supposedly did that. What do you think of a guy like that?
 

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I have been attempting to illustrate for you that it is the Holy Spirit who makes believing real. Man believing of his own volition means nothing. Faith, saving faith comes from hearing the word of God. It is the Holy Spirit who makes the faith living faith and efficacious in salvation.

For the cause of Christ
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But how are we to "know" that it is the Holy Spirit's volition and not our own volition?

Is assurance of salvation nothing more than having faith that having faith that we are saved? The former sentence is not a typo. Do you see the pattern? What am I missing?
 

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This would never happen at a game in the Super Dome. Our fans are a much of Saints.
It's a shame that it happens anywhere. We have attended the Chiefs home opener at Arrowhead Stadium for several years now and you can always count on at least a few fights breaking out during the game or after. One year the Chiefs home opener was against the Dallas Cowboys and that is the only home opener that I can remember in which I did not see one fight break out and the Cowboy fans were not rowdy at all and were actually good sports and a lot of fun!
 
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This would never happen at a game in the Super Dome. Our fans are a much of Saints.
Eagles fan here. Our fans tend to use iceballs, not peanuts. We have a reputation of putting the "sore" in "sore losers."
 
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God, the Creator of time, is not confined by time.

since our salvation is in Him - eternal life is to know Him - that salvation cannot any more be confined to time than He is; it transcends time: from our present time-like perspective, we have been saved, are being saved, and shall be saved.
Not that reference to the future.

I mean, if the question about salvation comes down to eternal-vacation-plan/heaven, than the person is just trying to duck Hell. That's not saved. That's covering bases, (and it doesn't.)
 
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If you think that having faith that you are saved equals actual salvation you are wrong. The gospel does not teach this in anyway. If it did that would be a works-based theology.
Actually, the gospel does teach that, but in a fuller version. (The righteousness and faith come from God, not us.)
Romans 3:21-26
 
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Well its not about the past.
God nailed to a cross. Yes, it really is. But, like Post said, God is not bound by time, therefore pinning your salvation to anything other than God? NOT good!
 
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At our congregation, we spell FAITH as R-I-S-K. Does anyone here feel it is, instead, an absolute "guarantee"?
Nope. Sorry. I firmly believe God is sovereign, so no risk at all.
 
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Its about knowing.

Those who claim to know but cannot explain how or why they know.

This is circular thinking and leads to chaos, as well as all types of heresies.
I have explained it. More than once!

GOD!

Which part aren't you getting? (And that's not a mock. To me it is so obvious, I honestly don't see what you're missing.)
 

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this all rests ultimately on faith in God's own faithfulness: on trusting the Father and the work of the Son.

assuming that the gospel is understood, anyone who doubts the Lord's faithfulness to keep the word He has spoken and to do all His will is going to doubt their own salvation in at least equal measure.

i am as fully assured that He will complete what He has begun in me as i am assured that He does not fail to complete His will.
You just said a mouthful, "assuming that the gospel is understood".

I have been a Christian since I was 18, I am now 52. I have studied the Bible "cover to cover" and still find things I did not see before. Even in the short 4-1/2 months I have been of cc has taught me much. So how can anyone understand the issue of salvation to the point that they can look themselves or anyone else in the eyes and proclaim they "know" that if they die today they will go to heaven. No ifs ands or buts. How could this be true of "everyone" when those who are making the claims are accusing the others of being wrong.

Is everyone who claims assurance, actually assured? Does the claim itself make it true?

It seems that most who claim this assurance must be mistaken. Who is mistaken I do not know but mistaken they must be. The question is how can we know we are not part of that group of the "mistaken"?

Saying you know because you know is not an answer.
 
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Okay how about this, "God will let you know and that is the only way we can KNOW." I can't tell anyone else how to KNOW they are saved, all I can do is share with them how I KNOW that I am saved and pray the Spirit opens their eyes to it.

Now how do I "KNOW" I'm saved? Well I've shared that on this site to the point I almost don't like to just so people don't get tired of seeing it, but it was through the hardest trial of my life. It was after 2 years of wanting to kill myself every day and thinking about doing it at least every 5 minutes of everyday that whole 2 years. It was after a motorcycle wreak that wasn't my fault took all function from my right (and dominate) arm, there was no way I, modern medicine, science, or this world could fix it, and me already thinking I was a Christian (the one that would have heard "depart from Me I never knew you") so I had nowhere to turn. I got no compensation for it at all, no benefit at all, yet could not leave my 2 boys with an "my dad killed himself" story, and knew know one would love them like their father would no matter how bad I wanted to die.

I came to the end of myself, I knew there was nothing I could do to help myself and I threw my hands up and quit. That's what I did the day God saved me (Sept. 29th 2013), I honestly didn't even want to believe there was a God anymore, if I every truly had, at this point. I hit my knees just knowing I couldn't do it anymore, and that's what I said, "I can't do this anymore, I can't do this anymore, I can't do this anymore, I tried, world you win, and I QUIT!!!" That was it, I didn't realize it then but the "old man" died right there on the floor that day. The next day I woke up new, I didn't even realize until lunch that I hadn't thought about killing myself all day, I also realized right then that I had felt better all day too. At that point I had no clue what had taken place but I KNEW two things, I knew it was from God, and I KNEW Jesus was His Son.

I started really thinking and then for the first time ever picked up the bible then started reading it for myself. Then I thought after reading a few things "I think I was born again", then kept on reading and reading. Within an hour or so I was just plain awestruck, It's all real? I't like for real really real? OH God thank you it's like for real really actually real. I think I dragged my jaw behind me for a month after this, after my own "road to Damascus" experience. That was how God assured me I was saved, and that is how I KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt that I am saved. I can't tell you how you know you're saved, or anyone else either, that's between the person and God, each one of us our different, but the way you KNOW you're saved can only come from God. Hope that's specific enough for you.
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What he said, but with a different story behind it.

Basically, I quit, and God saved.
 
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Again, the question is how can we know not if we can know.
How can you know that you know a pelican can fly?
How can you know that you know when you open the door to your house it won't crash in on you?
How can you know that you know God is?

God. Experience. God. Trust. God.

God! God gives us know!
 
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Your question, "do you love God with ALL your heart, soul, mind and strength 24/7/365?" can only be answered by God, according to Jeremiah 17:9.

So my answer is, I don't know.

We are back to square one.
Oh, come on! She even gave you the answer to that one! Go back and read what's she saying. Just read it. Stop reading to deflate it and just read it!
 
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The scripture answer has been given already, so let me give another answer:

I can know I am saved because I ask God in prayer to let me feel His presence, and I have felt His presence, so while some here may not believe in anything like that, that is my answer regardless.
It is a miracle God still deals with me, the dog that I am. GOD IS LOVE, GOD IS FORGIVING GOD IS MERCIFUL. I truly believe God will not cast away anyone who approaches Him in a repentant state.

Obviously we need to stand on the Scriptures but I still decided to share that for some reason.
 
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Personal experiences or feelings cannot assure us of salvation. The God of the Bible is not a god of confusion. If God assures us through personal experiences or feelings your story or any other story would be of little help to others. Do you have any verses to share about this issue?

What happened to Paul on the road to Damascus was not to assure him that he was saved but to prepare him for service.
Sooo, I'm a little slow here. You're whole purpose is this, right?


I'm done, until I see any evidence you even want a real answer.
 

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But how are we to "know" that it is the Holy Spirit's volition and not our own volition?

Is assurance of salvation nothing more than having faith that having faith that we are saved? The former sentence is not a typo. Do you see the pattern? What am I missing?
The Holy Spirit seems to be the missing factor in your case.

Are you a natural man or a Spiritual man? Not religious but Spiritual.

For the cause of Christ
Roger
 

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Saying you know because you know is not an answer.
Knowing something through personal empirical experience is the only way to truly know something. Otherwise you accept hearsay. As much as people may read about God, through whatever is available to them (hopefully the testaments found in Scriptures), that attest to His goodness, grace, mercy, love, and perfect justice, it is not the same as experiencing firsthand His desire for us to repent of our rebellion against Him, and believe in the shedding of His Son's righteous blood on the cross as a propitiatory sacrifice to pay the sin debt, that we may through faith be reconciled to God, and have a life more abundant, through living according to His principles in this life, and being united with Him forever after in the life to come, following the resurrection and judgment of all, at which time, those who have not placed their faith in Him, pass into the second death, being subject to the condemnation accorded to them under the penalty of the law, for they are without excuse.
 

posthuman

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You just said a mouthful, "assuming that the gospel is understood".

I have been a Christian since I was 18, I am now 52. I have studied the Bible "cover to cover" and still find things I did not see before. Even in the short 4-1/2 months I have been of cc has taught me much. So how can anyone understand the issue of salvation to the point that they can look themselves or anyone else in the eyes and proclaim they "know" that if they die today they will go to heaven. No ifs ands or buts. How could this be true of "everyone" when those who are making the claims are accusing the others of being wrong.

Is everyone who claims assurance, actually assured? Does the claim itself make it true?

It seems that most who claim this assurance must be mistaken. Who is mistaken I do not know but mistaken they must be. The question is how can we know we are not part of that group of the "mistaken"?

Saying you know because you know is not an answer.
please see post #162 and post #171

if you believe God, believe Him. of course when i say that with the tacit assumption that you comprehend what He says.
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comprehend what He says" -- wow yes, agreed, more than a mouthful -- but the gospel of Jesus Christ is both radically simple and cosmically, unimaginably rich & complex))
if you believe Him, believe Him fully -- that is assurance.
if you disbelieve Him, how can you have anything but doubt??

i get what you're saying - and it's a really interesting and relevant point, one i'm glad you're bringing up and pressing. no quibbling from me on the existence and premise of this thread, sir :)
there is this implicit circular reasoning, "
i believe because i believe and i am sure because i am sure of what i believe" -- but that whole circle consists of "me" and has nothing to do with God. the Lord lives - He is REAL and ALIVE and PRESENT - and it's upon the 'insertion' of Him into this logical samsara that that wheel is shattered and we're released from it.

treating this whole question as if it is somehow separate from and unconcerned with the Author and Finisher of our salvation is, of course, going to get us nowhere. i know i am His because i hear His voice. He's an active participant - the active participant in this. it's when He's left out, and we examine a salvation apart from a Savior, then that salvation necessarily​ appears very questionable, unsubstantiated and only quasi-justified by confirmation bias: no man can save himself; God alone saves.

He must be included, and since He deemed it fitting not to make us star-belly vs. regular-belly sneetches, it rests on faith in Him, His grace, His mercy, and His faithfulness.
 
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