Thanks Miri
I just started working there so when I saw them maliciously attack that girl for nothing just her appearance I felt so bad for her.Grown women shouldn't behave like that. I saw that kind of behavior back in high school and the effects it had on the victim was beyond hurt words are powerful mean girls but sad cause this is grown women.They form cliques to intimidate.Miri am I just being thin skinned? I feel so sad pray for me please just pray . I guess I am not confident God I am so weak cause I am different God I don't belong! My soul Miri I hurt so much how can people be so cruel? I need that job to survive . I began to see them kissing the supervisor butt and how unprofessional bias he's been.
Miri women can be mean girls.They form cliques play psychological mind games play dirty attacking you every form way trying to get you fired or make you feel sad miserable so you quit.
Miri I just need you pray please pray.God I hurt my soul I just can't.How do I assimilate get confident strong from this?
Strength comes with experience and age.
Give yourself time to learn the job and be good at it, that will give you more
confidence. But if it gets to the point where it's too much, just look for another
job you don't have to "put up" with that. There are other jobs, the best part is that
as you are in a job, you can be more picky about your next one.
When I was your age I would have put up and shut up, not now though I would
tell them their behaviour was unacceptable. I'm the sort of person who would
have said something when I saw they were critising someone else. Maybe I
would have said that they reminded me of the "mean girls" from that film and
did they realise it was just a film, not a character trait to inspire to. Ha ha
aren't I mean.
I once said to one of my bosses that the TV programme The Apprentice, was a
made for TV entertainment show, not a management style to aspire to!
Or you never know, as you get more familiar with people they might start to
respect you.
I came across this the other day and thought it was good, put off fear, put on
courage.
Do not be afraid of the enemy; [earnestly] remember the Lord and imprint Him
[on your minds], great and terrible, and [take from Him courage to] fight
for your brethren, your sons, your daughters, your wives, and
your homes. —NEHEMIAH 4: 14
All of us, at one time or another, wish we had more courage. Think about the
courage that Jochebed, the mother of Moses, showed. She defied Pharaoh’s
order to kill all of the Hebrew boys and hid her son for three months before
finally placing him in a basket, praying and trusting that God would provide.
Her daughter, Miriam, exhibited great courage when she watched her little
brother’s makeshift boat float right to Pharaoh’s daughter. Instead of hiding
or running away, she approached the princess with boldness and offered
to get a Hebrew nurse (Moses’ mother) to help care for the child.
Courage means to be brave, bold, and adventurous. It’s a quality like that
in Jochebed and Miriam’s example that allows a person to encounter danger
and challenge with firmness and resolve. We all need courage. Courage comes
from God, while fear is what Satan tries to give us. In the Bible we see the
phrase “take courage.” Courage is available, the same way fear is, but
we can choose to reject fear and take courage.
Lord, I choose to reject the
fears that will arise today. I look to You and “take courage” for all the challenges
that are before me. Imprint upon my mind the constant remembrance of
who You are and what You can do for me. Amen.
