I really don't follow your question, are you trying to say that Priscilla being mentioned before Aquila in a sentence means that she has authority over him? Isn't more sensible to believe the plainly written words "a woman is not to teach or usurp authority over the man" rather than to assume the woman being mentioned first in a sentence makes her the authority? That's cut and dry... it requires no interpretation or guessing.
You stated that Priscilla was in the wrong for teaching Apollos, because of 1 Tim 2:12. She never repented of this, and Paul never rebuked her specifically and directly for this (at least there is no record of either in Scripture).
Yet Paul repeatedly mentioned her in a positive context, and she is mentioned before her husband several times. If she did such a wrong thing, why is she never rebuked, and mentioned repeatedly and positively?