Folks if you read the OPs introduction, you will see she has come through a
lot of stuff. So for her it’s probably better not to wear wigs etc at the present, if
she feels this way. Maybe later once she is further along her Christian walk
she may change her mind.
Marsh if you are having difficulty and are a bit confused about what is ok and
what isn’t, you would benefit from chatting to your pastor or people
at your local church.
You will I’ll find a lot will change for you as you get to know God
and grow spiritually.