I don't think we can put God in a box, but looking through Gods word and history, the order of things has always been a man leading his people or church, God did rise up Deborah to Be judge, if a man don't rise up, God can use a woman to shame the men for having more courage but Gods order was for women to learn in silence and all submission, as helpers, as the word says and Paul says he does not allow women to teach men or to excersise authority over a man, for it was the woman who was tempted by Satan, women tend to go by their emotions more than men, a pastor needs to be strong emotional and spiritually, the twelve disciples were men, the twelve tribes of Israel were men, God allowed Israel a king and not a queen, the kingdom of God is lead through men by Gods order of things but it doesn't exclude God using women in the church in a high level spiritually in which he died for them and saves them as he can all and uses them for his glory, it's just not the order of God doing what he does, throughout the Bible of time, only once He rose up a women in a position of authority and that women was Deborah, times change, cultures change, but God and his order doesn't not change.