There is always someone there when we cross over, perhaps it was Jesus. Then she would believe.
The Word tells us clearly God's ways are not our ways.
Good thing our "opinion" doesn't matter. If and when we make Jesus Lord of our lives we are no longer our own, our "opinion" is of no consequence, we are "hidden in Him", His view is our view, His thoughts are our thoughts. Only if our faith life is immature, incomplete, lacking, do we entertain our "opinion" as having value.
we are now keeping our mind stayed on Him, Thessalonians guides us to work with our hands and mind our own business.
No wonder America is in turmoil, we need to come to the Father through the Son in all humility, bowing our knee.
blessings