You're correct, but you are not without blame. We can both choose right now to let that topic go, which I do. Besides, a) there comes a point when you realize that you're wasting your energy debating with someone, and b) there are forums specifically targeted to this kind of conversation on this site.
The perfect date.. there really isn't one perfect date, is there? It obviously depends on the couple. There can be many kinds of "perfect" dates, or just really good ones.
My GF from L.A. visited me in NYC back in 1998. Our first meeting, during the Memorial Day weekend, was like a power vacation. In one day, I took her through Central Park, the top of the Empire State Building, and later to the Astor Place Theater to see Blue Man Group. We were exhausted, to say the least.