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Well, that may be true to an extent. But I don't think it's anyone's place other than that person to know if they can learn by going through it or not. Some people are adapt drivers from the get go. I, however, was not and had to learn the hard way. BUT I didn't have to get in huge crashes to know how to avoid them. My dad taught me to drive defensively. i did however have to deal with insurance by trial and error when I got on one crash very recently because I had never been told how. So, I'll definitely agree with you that some things you have to go through to learn, but not all of them. Everybody's different ya?
Yes indeed. Some people are very naive and think things are rainbows and butterflies in relationships, and they think it will be like a disney film where it ends happily ever after, and when conflict comes they are completely unprepared for it and do not know how to work through problems because they've never been placed in the situation where they have to adapt or even develop their own convictions and standards and expectations. That is the biggest advantage of having been through a few relationships, you know what hills to die on and what to let go, and you have expectations.