How Do You React When God Tells You Hard Things (or Allows Difficult Things to Happen?)

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Blain said:
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Thank you, Blain, I did a few more tweaks on this panel after you bumped up the thread...
for instance I was not happy with the verse citation being tilted due to the banner
so I figured out how to fix that, and also did a few other minor things...


Isaiah 11 verse 6 ~ The wolf will live with the lamb, and the leopard will lie down with the goat; the calf and young lion and fatling will be together, and a little child will lead them.
 
Blain

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Magenta said:
Thank you, Blain, I did a few more tweaks on this panel after you bumped up the thread...
for instance I was not happy with the verse citation being tilted due to the banner
so I figured out how to fix that, and also did a few other minor things...


Isaiah 11 verse 6 ~ The wolf will live with the lamb, and the leopard will lie down with the goat; the calf and young lion and fatling will be together, and a little child will lead them.
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I made this last night nothing compared to you of course but I quite like it magicstudio-art (28).jpg
 
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Because of my childhood I never ever felt safe . God changed that . I have never fully trusted any human being , that still stands for me but the reasoning has changed . I used to think that people would let me down because I wasn't worthy of their love or respect , now I know that people r just people like me , weak and foolish and it's unfair to expect too much of any person . God saved me from my dad and my mum . God saved me from me . God saved me when I was drunk and walking home late at night by myself . God saved me from unsuitable men . God saved me from cancer . One day I will die , this is a fact . I know that when I die it will b in accordance with God's plan for me and the next thing I shall b aware of is the face of Jesus . I'm still that person who will never trust or rely on any human but , I know that I can trust and rely on God . He's here with me now and He won't ever leave me . Whatever I have to go through next , He is right here with me . I know that for an absolute certainty .
 
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Suze said:
Because of my childhood I never ever felt safe . God changed that . I have never fully trusted any human being , that still stands for me but the reasoning has changed . I used to think that people would let me down because I wasn't worthy of their love or respect , now I know that people r just people like me , weak and foolish and it's unfair to expect too much of any person . God saved me from my dad and my mum . God saved me from me . God saved me when I was drunk and walking home late at night by myself . God saved me from unsuitable men . God saved me from cancer . One day I will die , this is a fact . I know that when I die it will b in accordance with God's plan for me and the next thing I shall b aware of is the face of Jesus . I'm still that person who will never trust or rely on any human but , I know that I can trust and rely on God . He's here with me now and He won't ever leave me . Whatever I have to go through next , He is right here with me . I know that for an absolute certainty .
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indeed, Hebrews 13:5! are you sure we're not brother & sister? i say that because much of your childhood was like mine. always getting beat, being told- " you stupid jerk", "can't you do anything right", "you ahole", " you dummy". i'm sorry to hear of your troublesome childhood. i hope for you peace & comfort forever Suze. also, i didn't develop trust in anyone. it still takes me longer than the average person to develop trust. blessings to you.
 
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Karlon said:
indeed, Hebrews 13:5! are you sure we're not brother & sister? i say that because much of your childhood was like mine. always getting beat, being told- " you stupid jerk", "can't you do anything right", "you ahole", " you dummy". i'm sorry to hear of your troublesome childhood. i hope for you peace & comfort forever Suze. also, i didn't develop trust in anyone. it still takes me longer than the average person to develop trust. blessings to you.
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I'm so sorry that u had a tough time also . I know u understand totally when I say that it's very hard for us hard knock kids to form close emotional bonds when , the two people that should have given u unconditional love and kindness and made u feel safe , did not do that . If u can't trust those two to treat u nice how can u expect or even hope that others will do so . Maybe there is something about u ? Maybe your mum and dad were right to b horrible to u because maybe it's all your fault ? Those feelings r soooo hard to shake off and to b honest they have never totally left me . My head knows that it wasn't my fault but my emotions do like to mess with me sometimes . Finding out that both my parents r diagnosed psychopaths helped me enormously and eventually I could feel some pity for them . I hope with all my heart that u know what a treasure u r to God , I hope u have love and joy in your life and that the peace of God is forever with u as it is now with me . God definitely protected me when I was a child as He does now . Please know that He protected and preserved u also and He will continue to do so , u r previous in His sight ❤️ .
 
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Suze said:
I'm so sorry that u had a tough time also . I know u understand totally when I say that it's very hard for us hard knock kids to form close emotional bonds when , the two people that should have given u unconditional love and kindness and made u feel safe , did not do that . If u can't trust those two to treat u nice how can u expect or even hope that others will do so . Maybe there is something about u ? Maybe your mum and dad were right to b horrible to u because maybe it's all your fault ? Those feelings r soooo hard to shake off and to b honest they have never totally left me . My head knows that it wasn't my fault but my emotions do like to mess with me sometimes . Finding out that both my parents r diagnosed psychopaths helped me enormously and eventually I could feel some pity for them . I hope with all my heart that u know what a treasure u r to God , I hope u have love and joy in your life and that the peace of God is forever with u as it is now with me . God definitely protected me when I was a child as He does now . Please know that He protected and preserved u also and He will continue to do so , u r previous in His sight ❤️ .
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Precious ! Not previous 🙄 .
 
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Suze said:
I'm so sorry that u had a tough time also . I know u understand totally when I say that it's very hard for us hard knock kids to form close emotional bonds when , the two people that should have given u unconditional love and kindness and made u feel safe , did not do that . If u can't trust those two to treat u nice how can u expect or even hope that others will do so . Maybe there is something about u ? Maybe your mum and dad were right to b horrible to u because maybe it's all your fault ? Those feelings r soooo hard to shake off and to b honest they have never totally left me . My head knows that it wasn't my fault but my emotions do like to mess with me sometimes . Finding out that both my parents r diagnosed psychopaths helped me enormously and eventually I could feel some pity for them . I hope with all my heart that u know what a treasure u r to God , I hope u have love and joy in your life and that the peace of God is forever with u as it is now with me . God definitely protected me when I was a child as He does now . Please know that He protected and preserved u also and He will continue to do so , u r previous in His sight ❤️ .
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Precious not previous 🙄
 
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Karlon said:
indeed, Hebrews 13:5! are you sure we're not brother & sister? i say that because much of your childhood was like mine. always getting beat, being told- " you stupid jerk", "can't you do anything right", "you ahole", " you dummy". i'm sorry to hear of your troublesome childhood. i hope for you peace & comfort forever Suze. also, i didn't develop trust in anyone. it still takes me longer than the average person to develop trust. blessings to you.
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Precious not previous 🙄 .
 
Cameron143

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I think she meant precious, not previous.
 
Blain

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Suze said:
Because of my childhood I never ever felt safe . God changed that . I have never fully trusted any human being , that still stands for me but the reasoning has changed . I used to think that people would let me down because I wasn't worthy of their love or respect , now I know that people r just people like me , weak and foolish and it's unfair to expect too much of any person . God saved me from my dad and my mum . God saved me from me . God saved me when I was drunk and walking home late at night by myself . God saved me from unsuitable men . God saved me from cancer . One day I will die , this is a fact . I know that when I die it will b in accordance with God's plan for me and the next thing I shall b aware of is the face of Jesus . I'm still that person who will never trust or rely on any human but , I know that I can trust and rely on God . He's here with me now and He won't ever leave me . Whatever I have to go through next , He is right here with me . I know that for an absolute certainty .
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I understand your pain very well I was severely abused drugged starved and beaten as a child then even in my adult years I went through so much emotional and mental abuse my family told me I was to stupid to even cook eggs I never knew and still don't know what it is like to have a family that loves you even today my family neglected my health I have a lot of health issue because of my past and I almost died last year because of it I was severely starved skin and bones my health was so bad I had to call 911 many times to go to the er just to get some fluid in me

I only now have some wight on me because I was sent to a nursing home from the er after I almost died but now I live in a prison like environment and they feed me but they neglect my health and my eyes that are ;legally blind they only care about money here not the people in it my whole life I have only known neglect suffering abuse pain ect. even to this day but God has been with me the whole time I never felt truly alone even though everyone in my life let me down
 
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