When I look around i see lot of young girls wearing next to nothing. U can basicly see all their privats if you watch them. I thought of putting up a picture as an exsample but I think its not wise . I can not resist it and watch them. I am already batteling a porn addiction and this doesnt help. Can anyone relate?
Young girls wearing next to nothing!
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I'm going to be the jerk and call a spade a spade.
It isn't that you "can't" resist, it's that you chose to not resist.
It isn't that you "can't" resist, it's that you chose to not resist.
Shortest thread ever. Think you saw the issue. I'll close the door on my way out. Good evening!
I live somewhere where I don't even see girls often, so I can't relate. Even if I did, I don't see myself looking at them.
If your'e being serious, I hope some someone can relate & help you; but all I can say is to just restrain your eyes & neck as much as you can, looking away. Close your eyes if you have to.
@Oncefallen I don't doubt that there are men with the hypersexuality to have problems with this.
The phenomenon you describe—where a person struggling with pedophilic tendencies believes they see more than what is truly present, such as imagining private parts during brief or innocent glimpses—is a recognized psychological pattern linked to pedophilic disorder. Clinically, this can be understood as a form of "cognitive distortion" or "fantasy-based misperception." In this state, the mind interprets ambiguous or non-sexual observations as sexual, generating intense and persistent fantasies or urges that are disproportionate to reality. This is part of the diagnosis of pedophilic disorder as outlined in the DSM-5, which involves persistent sexual arousal toward children, accompanied by impaired impulse control and fixation.
This cognitive distortion is not a conscious choice but a mental health condition that often requires professional intervention. Treatments such as cognitive-behavioral therapy aim to reshape these perceptions and reduce harmful thoughts and behaviors. Because this condition is serious and can lead to harm, it is crucial for anyone experiencing these thoughts or urges to seek compassionate, confidential, and professional help immediately
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That guilt is a very good thing, it is your guidance of what to not do.
best wishes
best wishes
May I ask, just to clarify...
Your profile says you are female?
I'm not condemning, I just wanted to be clear to better know how to pray over this.
If you do have a porn addiction, my suggestion would be get serious about getting it under control now. It won't get better or go away on its own. It won't lead you anywhere good. The problem isn't girls in skimpy clothing (although that a whole other issue). You need to learn some self-control. It can be done if you want it badly enough.
Thats a mistake im a man. I am 71 and have history of childporn addiction. I havent looked at it for awhile but havent got rid of it. I collected it for 30 years. But now I see young girls in all kind of sexy outfits and i feel im slipping. I feel like ill never get over it. I dont have anyone to talk with about my addiction of young girls.
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I wish I could talk to someone about my feelings for young girls. There are moments im fine but others Im downloading enormes amound of CP and watch all night long for weeks. If only I could find someone that would talk to me about my obsession.
Thank youThat guilt is a very good thing, it is your guidance of what to not do.
best wishes
only look at the eyes, and ditching that stuff you have saved will bring you release from it's hold on you.
People with NDE's notice those little nagging temptations are not there on the other side, only here until satan is bound.
blessings
You may have a porn addiction; but attraction to children isn't an addiction, it's a perversion. Talking is no good; you have to decide you're going to change your ways then do it. You can talk all you want, but unless you make a decision to change, you never will. Time is running out for you my friend, I suggest you repent now and seek God. I speak as one who was addicted to porn for a very long time.
You're not lost; there's hope. But it won't go away on its own.
I'm sure you're very aware of this, and again, I'm not trying to criticize or condemn, but I'm sure you also know that what you are possessing and addicted to is highly illegal, at least here in the USA.
I see your profile says you are in Ukraine, where, according to Google, it is also illegal. I mention this because I had a former boss and a family member's pastor who were given prison sentences for what you describe (possession of CP.)
This makes the problem not only a spiritual and moral issue, but a legal issue as well. And seeing as it's a lifelong "obsession", as you have described, I think it's highly unlike you're going to be able to break it without help, perhaps on a professional level.
Do you have a trusted pastor you can talk to?
You seem to have at least a good mastery of communicating on the internet.
Have you looked up any resources for getting help with this?
Porn addiction is such a pervasive issue, I would guess there are several dedicated/specialized sites who are much better equipped (and know how to work within the legal codes) that could help?
I could be wrong about this, but for the legal issue alone, I personally would not advise talking to just anyone who would listen about this problem. And it's not because I am trying to somehow make you feel even more isolated or like you can't talk to anyone, but because what you're dealing with really requires a specialist who can navigate the legal boundaries of any such conversation.
I am going to pray that you will receive someone who is truly qualified to help you both legally and spiritually.