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Yes, but it was 40+ years ago when America still looked down on asians.
Did they apologise?

One of our former Prime Ministers made an official apology for the govt when they were being racist.
But there are some politicians that still are. They confuse discrimination with discernment.

Australia has a National Sorry Day. And so they should be!
 
Did they apologise?

One of our former Prime Ministers made an official apology for the govt when they were being racist.
But there are some politicians that still are. They confuse discrimination with discernment.

Australia has a National Sorry Day. And so they should be!
No, it wasn't the government who was racist, it was just kids and it was spurred on by depicting Asians in movies and tv as being simple-minded and subservient. There was even a hit tv show that I LOVED about a Chinese kung fu master who lived in the wild west and they used an American actor to play the Chinese character. I didn't care about that, I think David Carradine was excellent in that role, but it just illustrates the 2nd class-citizen view of Asians that Americans in general had back then. Also, America had just been through the Vietnam War and the North Vietnamese were evil in how they killed and treated American soldiers and prisoners of war. I really don't want to turn this into a thread about racism. Americans don't think that way anymore.
 
US, and it was 40+ years ago.
What kind of Asian? Also the 1900s was a time frame where the US had multiple wars and conflicts with Asian countries that also shifted the culture back home like WWII and the Vietnam War.

Not excusing the racism, however I've never known White Americans to be super racist to Asians- maybe some jokes and teasing, but flat out hatred was rare and would most likely be from veterans.
 
What kind of Asian? Also the 1900s was a time frame where the US had multiple wars and conflicts with Asian countries that also shifted the culture back home like WWII and the Vietnam War.

Not excusing the racism, however I've never known White Americans to be super racist to Asians- maybe some jokes and teasing, but flat out hatred was rare and would most likely be from veterans.
I never said America was super racist. I said the kids i grew up with picked on me because of my ethnicity. It has nothing to do with adults. The kids were racist because of what they saw on tv and in movies at the time.
 
What kind of Asian? Also the 1900s was a time frame where the US had multiple wars and conflicts with Asian countries that also shifted the culture back home like WWII and the Vietnam War.

That's the thing -- it doesn't matter what kind of Asian, because most people can't tell the difference. And I'm not casting any blame, because I'm Asian and often can't tell the difference either. I'm Korean, but even other Asians have often thought I was Chinese.

It's like trying to discern the specific ethnic background of someone who is black.

And even if people could easily discern the difference, it doesn't matter because most don't know the very different histories between the various countries.

Again, I'm not faulting anyone because I'm no expert either.

But I have definitely encountered situations where some people, NOT ALL of course, but some, just see "Asian", and to them, "Asian" is seen as bad.

I am adopted and grew up as one of only a handful of adopted Asians in a white family and an area with a "small white town" mentality.

I only knew OF the other Asians -- I didn't actually know them. I did meet two of them when I was older, but we never became friends.

Starting when I was about 14, older white men (40's, 50's, 60's, 70's) would make comments to me that had been said to Asians in movies at that time, and I suspect, from porn movies, which at that time (before the internet) took a bit of work and money to obtain.


Not excusing the racism, however I've never known White Americans to be super racist to Asians- maybe some jokes and teasing, but flat out hatred was rare and would most likely be from veterans.

This is something spoken by someone who hasn't been the target of such racism, so they don't know, because they can only go from what they've observed.

My sister-in-law still gets asked in work situations today if she's a "good Korean" or a "bad Korean." And right here on CC chat I was asked if I was from the North (bad) or South (good) Korea. A few years ago here in the forums, the moderators banned a white man (if his avatar was really him) who was making racist comments towards another Asian member and myself.

(As an aside, most people don't seem to realize that they're likely NEVER going to meet someone from North Korea -- anyone who tries to leave North Korea gets executed. 99.999 and 1/2 of any Koreans they meet are going to be from the South.)

I had another adopted Korean friend who grew up as the target of a lot of physical violence and bullying all throughout school.

Many people are also quiet about their true feelings towards people who are different until certain situations come up -- like when someone in the family wants to date or marry someone of another race.

I knew another adopted Korean girl whose engagement was broken up due to her white fiance's family not wanting him to marry someone who was not white.

And there is plenty of racism between Asian ethnicities as well (most traditional Asian parents insist on marrying someone of the same Asian ethnicity.)

I have a family member who is also Asian and married into a family (of other Asians, but not the same kind of Asian) who proclaimed that my family member was "not fully human" due to being adopted.

I've ran into this before and know to expect it. Adopted and/or American Asians are not seen as "real" Asians to the Asian community because we are seen as not having any "real roots" (family history or tradition.)

When I was young, I hated being different, and have thought about self-deletion many times.


But God has brought me through many things, and now I don't mind some of the differences I used to despise in myself.

And I'm not meaning to play the race card here because what being different made me realize is that EVERYONE is bullied for something, and I hate that.

I've always wanted red hair, but as an ironic joke, God makes sure I've always had at least one red-headed friend throughout my life instead (right now I have 3.) The taunting and cruel comments towards redheads is unbearable, and it makes me boil with anger whenever I hear such nonsense.

I feel just as angry when my white/black/brown/purple/mixed friends get mistreated as well. But I feel blessed to meet a lot of people from all backgrounds who choose to turn the other cheek and just keep going.

I have always made friends among the "misfits" and the "different" in the crowd, and I love having a diverse group of friends who edify each other through God's love, no matter our differences.
 
What kind of Asian? Also the 1900s was a time frame where the US had multiple wars and conflicts with Asian countries that also shifted the culture back home like WWII and the Vietnam War.

Not excusing the racism, however I've never known White Americans to be super racist to Asians- maybe some jokes and teasing, but flat out hatred was rare and would most likely be from veterans.
I never said America was super racist. I said the kids i grew up with picked on me because of my ethnicity. It has nothing to do with adults. The kids were racist because of what they saw on tv and in movies at the time.

As another example of what Zero was saying, in 1987, a war movie came out called "Full Metal Jacket."

I've never seen it, but remember people talking about it well enough at the time.

There's a famous line in the movie where a young Vietnamese girl, who is working as a prostitute, propositions a white soldier with, "Well, baby, me so h---y. Me so h---y! Me love you long time. You party?"

Was it relevant, and even accurate, for the sake of the movie? Absolutely.

But it also cemented the idea in a lot of people's heads that this is what Asian women are all about, especially at a time when all anyone in the USA knew about Asians was from a screen.

I have absolutely despised that line all my life, and apparently, it's a quote I'll never get away from.

A few years ago, I was spending time with friends and was shocked when I heard my teenage honorary nephew repeating "Me so h----y!" over and over with his friends. Apparently, it was something they'd heard on social media and thought it was just hilarious.

I asked him, "Do you have any idea where that line is from?" Of course he didn't. I showed him the original clip and he automatically said, "Yeah, that's racist."

I didn't hear him say it again while I was there.

Sure, it might have only been for my benefit, but I hope and pray it made a lasting impression on him of how damaging supposedly "funny" quotes like that can be.
 
I thought he was referring to Jackie Chan, Shanghai Noon. But I was wrong.. Jackie Chan is from Hong Kong.
He also did Rush hour, that was hugely popular movie. And he did Kung Fu, not Karate. Kung Fu and Tai Chi is Chinese, Karate and Judo is Japanese. Tae Kwon Do is Korean.
Yoga is Indian/Hindi
Pilates is...Roman?
 
Kids are the worst racists...and bullies. Cos they don't know what they talking about. And mean! Have you seen the movie Mean Girls?! The Vietnamese girls. The Asian hotties and the Asian nerds table.

Lindsay Lohan only got a pass because she was a ginger.
 
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I thought he was referring to Jackie Chan, Shanghai Noon. But I was wrong.. Jackie Chan is from Hong Kong.
He also did Rush hour, that was hugely popular movie. And he did Kung Fu, not Karate. Kung Fu and Tai Chi is Chinese, Karate and Judo is Japanese. Tae Kwon Do is Korean.
Yoga is Indian/Hindi
Pilates is...Roman?
I love Jackie Chan too. I was referring to the old tv show Kung Fu starring David Carradine. But after looking into it just now, I found that they rejected Bruce Lee because he had a strong accent and thought it would be difficult for viewers to understand him even though he is Chinese like the main character.
 
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Captions people...captions...(or subtitles)
Plus you can always overdub, how do people in the US watch foreign language films then? Or they just don't?!
 
I wonder if USAsians even have International Film Festivals....?!
 
Babylon doesn't know who you are and she doesn't care what you think.

Only God knows the hairs on your head, and He does care. He made each one of us unique and different, and he calls us by our name. He also tells His children to, "...come out of her" We are not a number.
For those whom may not have considered, the paraphrase of the notorious 'Babylon' (Rev 18) could be The World System, in all her self-sufficient strength. The well-educated carnal mind will cringe right in front of you when they hear that consideration.
 
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Oh you mean like capitalism or maybe communism or a combo of the two, like computerlism?

Binary or non-binary?

You know those surveys that asks what ethnicity are you? And they don't have yours and so you just put OTHER?
Or you make up your own.
 
I think that people r even more different than we realise . It seems to me as if a lot of people want to fit in with everybody else so , they actually try not to b different but , they still r , they just try to hide it . , U like me and a few others I know, don't try to hide our differences , we r comfortable being ourselves , it actually requires a lot of effort to pretend that u r like everyone else . I'm too lazy to pretend to like the same things everybody else says they do , they r pretending to like those things in order to fit in with everybody else but everybody else is also pretending . It all a bit mad and a bit sad . A lot of people want to feel safe and , they only do if they think that everybody else likes them and they think that the only way everybody else will like them is if they r the same as everyone else 🤷 . Eventually , it all becomes second nature and people become lost in the hive mentality , they completely loose their own identity , their own thoughts and feelings r numbed out of existence .
Then one day somebody comes along who is just being themselves and the hive gets totally freaked out and they turn on the weirdo who dares to b different . Like I said , all a bit mad and sad and occasionally horrible .
We pay a price , us individuals , all because we r too lazy , or too honest , or too comfortable in our own skin , to just shave our corners off and fit in with everybody else . Well I like my corners , I like yours too . Just b u , God loves u exactly as u r .
 
God loves u exactly as u r .
Revelation chapter 5

9 And they sung a new song, saying, Thou art worthy to take the book, and to open the seals thereof: for thou wast slain, and hast redeemed us to God by thy blood out of every kindred, and tongue, and people, and nation;
10 And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on the earth.
 
Oh you mean like capitalism or maybe communism or a combo of the two, like computerlism?

Binary or non-binary?

You know those surveys that asks what ethnicity are you? And they don't have yours and so you just put OTHER?
Or you make up your own.
Well-educated just don't seem to mix faith and contentment when approaching ch18. Some Christians too, will agree, but evidence of trusting in His definitions after a season, are not given a place within.
 
mm I dunno if I'm lazy, or maybe just like being brutally honest. But yea acting takes a lot of effort.
All that make up has to come off at the end of the day anyway, and if you cry the mascara will run, so I just don't bother to wear any.

Yea non-Christians may judge you for what's on the outside, but true Christians wouldn't and see your heart I suppose
 
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