Why Are So Many Christians Still Single?

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If you are so unhappy at your church then why haven't you switched to a different one? What the pastor says is his responsibility, what you listen to is YOUR responsibility.

I never said the instagrammers are happy. I'm not even on Instagram. Their lives are not my concern and their happiness (or lack thereof) is none of my business. So I do not feel the need to whine about them.
I’m not for “church shopping,” I just gave you an honest report.

Also, neither am I on instagram, but most people do, including that pastor and others who do whine about others’ happiness. Again, just an honest report based on my observation.
 
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I don't mean to sound rude or anything. I just don't understand your question grammatically.
Other people have their marriage life, what does that have to do with you? You asked, “What does what have to do with me?” that’s the “what.”
 
Other people have their marriage life, what does that have to do with you? You asked, “What does what have to do with me?” that’s the “what.”

Well, how does the married life of other people somehow negate or discredit the desire of other, unmarried people for marriage?

Is that what you meant to say?
 
As with any other minority population, it is looking for a spouse within a strata, further complicated by local and regional demographic characteristics (e.g., areas with large student populations or higher average ages).
 
I’m not for “church shopping,” I just gave you an honest report.

Also, neither am I on instagram, but most people do, including that pastor and others who do whine about others’ happiness. Again, just an honest report based on my observation.

I'm not big on church hopping either, but since you claim that half of what your pastor says is irrelevant and unbiblical then why on earth are you still listening to it? Good grief man, if you allegation is correct then you are complicit in error at this point. Either find a new church or stop whining about it.
 
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I'm not big on church hopping either, but since you claim that half of what your pastor says is irrelevant and unbiblical then why on earth are you still listening to it? Good grief man, if you allegation is correct then you are complicit in error at this point. Either find a new church or stop whining about it.
What makes you think I’m still constantly listening to that? It’s rather a warning, because this is quite common. In some cases it’s all his personal stuffs, in others it’s motivational speech you can’t clearly tell.
 
What makes you think I’m still constantly listening to that? It’s rather a warning, because this is quite common. In some cases it’s all his personal stuffs, in others it’s motivational speech you can’t clearly tell.
Maybe give some suggestions to the ps, they are human too, they need some reminding from time to time.
In the past I wrote to some ps, telling them keep private opinions to themselves, only preach biblical scripture.
Agree not church hopping. Iron sharpen iron, you can correct your ps too. No one is above another. On Jesus above every one.
 
Maybe give some suggestions to the ps, they are human too, they need some reminding from time to time.
In the past I wrote to some ps, telling them keep private opinions to themselves, only preach biblical scripture.
Agree not church hopping. Iron sharpen iron, you can correct your ps too. No one is above another. On Jesus above every one.
Well they gotta cater to the congregation, aiming for the largest common denominator, I don’t blame them. As least there’s still a church, compare to many other countries and regions where Christianity is practiced outlawed. It’s just frustrating though that in some extreme cases, a few Bible verses only serve as a preamble to something else.
 
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Well they gotta cater to the congregation, aiming for the largest common denominator, I don’t blame them. As least there’s still a church, compare to many other countries and regions where Christianity is practiced outlawed. It’s just frustrating though that in some extreme cases, a few Bible verses only serve as a preamble to something else.
My church teaching is very scripture focused. We are independent small church.
I visited another church nearby, they are even smaller. Their teach was very decent too. But more older people.

If young people don't go to church, more and more churches will close down. Really don't know the future church situation.
 
What makes you think I’m still constantly listening to that? It’s rather a warning, because this is quite common. In some cases it’s all his personal stuffs, in others it’s motivational speech you can’t clearly tell.

Well, most people don't whine endlessly about things they are not listening to. But you whine about Instagrammers a lot too and apparently you're not even on Instagram, so maybe it's all par for the Lovette course 🤷‍♀️
 
In my case... any woman I get interested in only wants me as a friend. Any woman interested in me, typically has kids, and I'm looking for someone who saved themselves.
 
Well, most people don't whine endlessly about things they are not listening to. But you whine about Instagrammers a lot too and apparently you're not even on Instagram, so maybe it's all par for the Lovette course 🤷‍♀️
why do you care so much then?