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Growing up... I used to think most women were "more" good... maybe even more moral than men.
Now... I just have a somewhat cautious and bad view of them in general. I know it's not all of them... but I just have a bad vibe about them now.
For example, just as I'm typing this post... I'm kind of irked about how I think my aunt is trying to read what I'm typing. I think it. I suspect it because she has tried before and has bluntly lied about not doing so.. and on-top of that she smiled and laughed casually about it.
Anyways, as a kid and growing up through my teens, I always thought that women seemed to be our better half. They're sweet and innocent and thought of as the victims. (sigh) And I thought of it that way for most of my life... but today I said something that made me realize I just don't think like that anymore. I commented on my college professor and said, "all we(students) see is a woman lecturing really fast." That was criticism and you notice how I just said, "woman." The way I said that made me realize that this is how I think of women in general. I think most of them are bothersome and annoying sometimes. I feel like they want to be pampered and be understood like an annoying little brat at a grocery store. GIMMIE, GIMMIE, I want it my way... understand me... but I FEEL THIS IS IMPORTANT TO ME. It's like a give women everything and men are suppose to be okay with giving her everything. I know it's not like that with all women but it has been like that with most of the women in my life.
I just wish the women in my life were easier going instead of trying to selfishly have it her way. I don't like my aunt sometimes. She can be one annoying woman. She complains and always notes negative things and even predicts negative things are going to happen if things don't go her way. I honestly sometimes can't even stand the sound of her voice. I've snapped at her a few times and I think that's what she needed. I yelled and she actually pipped down some. I told her that she gives me a head ache and she understood thanks to God. Anyways, point is.. her behavior has made the idea of not being around her an attractive idea and this is what I wanted to point out. Some of you women can be so freaking annoying that I don't want to be around you sometimes. So, if this applies to you... please try to keep your mouth shut and consider others around you. And no, I'm not going to try to be tact... it has to be said this way so YOU get the message and see how far it affects the men in your life around you. I feel like I want to just quit on some women in my life... because of how thoughtless and selfish these women can be. I'm done.
So, why is this in the singles forum? Easy... I think what I'm experiencing is something worth noting to the singles, both men and women, because I know there's men that have these problems with the women in their lives. And women should be aware and take notes so they don't make the men in their lives feel this way. This is a relationship problem among men and women.
In summary, I think women can SOMETIMES be fatalistic naggers or just nag in general but fatalistic naggers take the cake IMO, focused on utterly useless details (notice I was specific the kind of details and also note that THIS is an actual important detail to note), read between the lines and imagine entire universes around those made up thoughts and then on-top of all that... completely be convinced she's right about it all just because she feels like it.
Solution, or at least what I think is the solution. I think a good part of the solution is in one word and that word is truth. Women, stick to that word and watch your world transform around you. Whether your one of the women I'm complaining about or not... or anyone really... will live in a much more clear world if you stick to the truth. The truth is not based off your feelings. Your feelings only tell you how YOU feel... It's not a guide to your life. If you think your feelings is your guide in life then you need to re-evaluate your life.
Another part of the solution is just be easy going and understand that constantly complaining about not getting your way just makes people want to get stay away from you. Just be nice.
So, yeah, what are your thoughts?
Now... I just have a somewhat cautious and bad view of them in general. I know it's not all of them... but I just have a bad vibe about them now.
For example, just as I'm typing this post... I'm kind of irked about how I think my aunt is trying to read what I'm typing. I think it. I suspect it because she has tried before and has bluntly lied about not doing so.. and on-top of that she smiled and laughed casually about it.
Anyways, as a kid and growing up through my teens, I always thought that women seemed to be our better half. They're sweet and innocent and thought of as the victims. (sigh) And I thought of it that way for most of my life... but today I said something that made me realize I just don't think like that anymore. I commented on my college professor and said, "all we(students) see is a woman lecturing really fast." That was criticism and you notice how I just said, "woman." The way I said that made me realize that this is how I think of women in general. I think most of them are bothersome and annoying sometimes. I feel like they want to be pampered and be understood like an annoying little brat at a grocery store. GIMMIE, GIMMIE, I want it my way... understand me... but I FEEL THIS IS IMPORTANT TO ME. It's like a give women everything and men are suppose to be okay with giving her everything. I know it's not like that with all women but it has been like that with most of the women in my life.
I just wish the women in my life were easier going instead of trying to selfishly have it her way. I don't like my aunt sometimes. She can be one annoying woman. She complains and always notes negative things and even predicts negative things are going to happen if things don't go her way. I honestly sometimes can't even stand the sound of her voice. I've snapped at her a few times and I think that's what she needed. I yelled and she actually pipped down some. I told her that she gives me a head ache and she understood thanks to God. Anyways, point is.. her behavior has made the idea of not being around her an attractive idea and this is what I wanted to point out. Some of you women can be so freaking annoying that I don't want to be around you sometimes. So, if this applies to you... please try to keep your mouth shut and consider others around you. And no, I'm not going to try to be tact... it has to be said this way so YOU get the message and see how far it affects the men in your life around you. I feel like I want to just quit on some women in my life... because of how thoughtless and selfish these women can be. I'm done.
So, why is this in the singles forum? Easy... I think what I'm experiencing is something worth noting to the singles, both men and women, because I know there's men that have these problems with the women in their lives. And women should be aware and take notes so they don't make the men in their lives feel this way. This is a relationship problem among men and women.
In summary, I think women can SOMETIMES be fatalistic naggers or just nag in general but fatalistic naggers take the cake IMO, focused on utterly useless details (notice I was specific the kind of details and also note that THIS is an actual important detail to note), read between the lines and imagine entire universes around those made up thoughts and then on-top of all that... completely be convinced she's right about it all just because she feels like it.
Solution, or at least what I think is the solution. I think a good part of the solution is in one word and that word is truth. Women, stick to that word and watch your world transform around you. Whether your one of the women I'm complaining about or not... or anyone really... will live in a much more clear world if you stick to the truth. The truth is not based off your feelings. Your feelings only tell you how YOU feel... It's not a guide to your life. If you think your feelings is your guide in life then you need to re-evaluate your life.
Another part of the solution is just be easy going and understand that constantly complaining about not getting your way just makes people want to get stay away from you. Just be nice.
So, yeah, what are your thoughts?