No, you are not getting it
I suffer not a woman to teach authority, if you read Scripture, means the woman is not to teach she is the alpha personality or the dominant sex. Look up the word 'authentein,' the Greek word for 'authority,' and, THEN, get back to me with your judgmentalism, which, on that note, speak wisely, Proverbs says, steph. Judging others is NEVER speaking wisely, and, no, you are not judging disobedience to God, this issue has ZERO to do with sinning, LOL, it has to do with TWO different interpretations of a passage. Don't make this into more than it is, k
OK, then the next part speaks of "I suffer not a woman to HAVE AUTHORITY over a man but to be silent" Again, this is Paul extrapolating, not only are women not to teach they are SUPERIOR SEX (in charge over men), they are to NOT HAVE domineering control over men in a church.
So, this said, how in the world is a woman PREACHING to a man having control over him?? It's not. There is only ONE person who has control over us. God ! And, Jesus said only one person granted people any ability to have authority over Him. God!
It's all about God !!!!!
Thinking a woman pastor has control over you is just plain silly, and, thinking a man pastor has control over you is just plain silly. The Holy Spirit has control over you, NO MATTER WHICH SEX IS SPEAKING, He is the author and perfector of YOUR faith