I wasn't getting defensive. I was just surprised that you knowing I am a Christian that you would think I would continue such a lifestyle without repentance.
As far as rebuking that is done by the church as a whole, and not on an individual basis. The overseers of the church have authority to rebuke, and then are required to inform the flock as of why we should turn away.
This was a misunderstanding, and I will leave it at that. You did not know I repented. You now know. Life is good.
I also must go now. Errands to run, taxes to do(which will probably lead to crying like a 2 year old in public)