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blue_ladybug

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Correct interpretation of Matthew 7 is that we make sure we ourselves are not guilty of a particular sin before we think we can judge another of that sin.

If it was the way you say, we could never(according to the scriptures) judge another because we all sin!
​I believe that's what I said. :confused: If i'm fornicating, I can't very well judge YOU for fornicating, now can I? :)
 

JesusLives

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So we all should promote more sin?...what about those who are not living in these type of sins...do they have the right to speak against these type of sins?
Maybe we should rephrase the question.... Do you have a right to speak out against gay people unless you are gay?
 
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Maybe we should rephrase the question.... Do you have a right to speak out against gay people unless you are gay?
That is a good point I didn't think of myself.
 
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Ok I'm not guilty .. I have kept myself pure for many years now.. I have the right in your understanding to speak about this issue? Not that I'm asking permission..just showing you folks have no understanding of biblical correction
Its true that the world perverts all of Matthew 7 but I also see christians do the same thing to some degree! Its a matter of taking it piece by piece (as we do any of the Living Word)and interpreting it in context.
 

JesusLives

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I don't get the logic of your post..or what point you think your making?
Maybe Blond can help make it clear.... Turn your eyes upon Jesus and the things of earth will grow strangely dim....

Is it really our job to police other people and their sin?

Are we not to reflect the life of Jesus and love them and is it not the Holy Spirits job to convict and convince of sin and prompt them and us to turn away from sinning?

How many people came up to you when you first converted and pointed out every sin you were committing and demand that you straighten up and fly right? Or was it the Holy Spirit speaking to your heart that helped you to turn from whoremongering?
 
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Maybe Blond can help make it clear.... Turn your eyes upon Jesus and the things of earth will grow strangely dim....

Is it really our job to police other people and their sin?

Are we not to reflect the life of Jesus and love them and is it not the Holy Spirits job to convict and convince of sin and prompt them and us to turn away from sinning?

How many people came up to you when you first converted and pointed out every sin you were committing and demand that you straighten up and fly right? Or was it the Holy Spirit speaking to your heart that helped you to turn from whoremongering?
You are a very wise lady.
 

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So was God loveless when He made these rules..
Without the love of God you can't understand the rules.

are those who tell others about the destruction that comes with the gay lifestyle also loveless ..
If you say it in a way that beats them down and pushes them further from God you are making it harder to get out of that lifestyle. In that case, you are putting them in danger. Quite loveless.


I'm getting the sense that you made this thread just to vent a bad attitude.
 
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We aren't responsible for other people's salvation or lack thereof. We are responsible for how we treat people regardless of whether they are saved or not....living in sin or not....alcoholic or not. Doesn't mean we shouldn't have boundaries or call the authorities if someone breaks the law. Just means that we shouldn't be surprised or offended by what other sinners do.
 
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Originally Posted by Susanna

How can somebody be pro gay, pro fornication and pro adultery?



Are you new to this forum?....just watch...they might not openly admit they approve these things...but clearly the




she's been here longer than you

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We aren't responsible for other people's salvation or lack thereof. We are responsible for how we treat people regardless of whether they are saved or not....living in sin or not....alcoholic or not. Doesn't mean we shouldn't have boundaries or call the authorities if someone breaks the law. Just means that we shouldn't be surprised or offended by what other sinners do.

and you know what?

it is actually much harder to treat people nice for Christ's sake, then it is to badger them, harass them, condemn them and point out sin

I've had all that done to me even when I was innocent of what I was being accused of

I think sharkwales is on to something when he posted this:

I'm getting the sense that you made this thread just to vent a bad attitude.
this thread is starting to remind me of the common and popular grace vs works merry-go-round threads
 
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​I believe that's what I said. :confused: If i'm fornicating, I can't very well judge YOU for fornicating, now can I? :)
Oh alright! I think it was the way you wrote it " or any sin for that matter" that led to the misunderstanding.
It appeared to me that you were saying if we are in any sin then we shouldnt judge for a particular sin.
 
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and you know what?

it is actually much harder to treat people nice for Christ's sake, then it is to badger them, harass them, condemn them and point out sin

I've had all that done to me even when I was innocent of what I was being accused of

I think sharkwales is on to something when he posted this:



this thread is starting to remind me of the common and popular grace vs works merry-go-round threads
We treat people bad when we want to elevate ourselves. Seems that our pride keeps us from denying ourselves in a multitude of ways and even worse when we elevate ourselves at the expense of someone else. Forced sorrow leads to death but Godly sorrow leads to life. That is why it is better to just care about people where they are....they will eventually share their heart and a boatload of pain with you. People will always go to the last place they were loved and sadly it isn't often that it's church people they felt loved by.
 
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If the treatment of people in LGBT lifestyle is to focus on their sin, no matter how right it is it doesn't change anything. If it doesn't change anything, than the purpose of focusing on their sin is probably not about helping them, but about protecting ourselves and distancing ourselves from them.

People overcome by focusing on God and his goodness, not on themselves and their badness. So if we can't help them focus on God then we do not know enough to help them and need to focus more on God ourselves, until God gives us love for them.

Loveless truth is not from God, but from religious spirits. If we are in touch with God's heart then we know how to speak a truth to someone that brings them into God's love. God's love is a greater truth. If we don't know how to step into their situation and see God's heart from there, how can we say we would overcome that sin if we were tempted by it? If not, how can we have authority to talk about it... especially if without God's heart, nothing we say has the power to change anything? In that case our words become a result of disconnection from God, just like their choices.
The Truth, very well spoken, especially the first paragraph.
 

JesusLives

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Someone said you couldn't possibly be a Christian and gay.....

Well I am a murdering, adultress, lying, stealing, dishonoring parenting, taking God's name in vein, idol worshiping, Sabbath breaking, coveting - Christian.... Blasphemy you say.... Well it's true all of it. At one time in my life and even currently on some of this stuff as I do slip and fall on occasion.... I have broken every last one of the 10 commandments literally.... But and there is a BIG one.... I gave my heart to God and I am now called a Christian....

Who did the convincing of my sin? It was God's Holy Spirit speaking to my heart showing me the wrongness of my ways, that I should not have had that abortion, that lying was not good, stealing not necessary, disrespectful not to obey my parents and highly disrespectful to take God's name in vein.... hurtful to be with another woman's husband and so on...

So if a gay person is convicted by the Holy Spirit and has changed their lifestyle it is possible that a gay person could be a Christian they just don't practice it anymore as I now choose not to go against God's law anymore...the fact is I was all those things before and the gay person was gay... but now we are both Christians....

I still fall into sin at times....slippage - I get upset with myself when I do.... It's called repentance and asking for forgiveness and Jesus forgives us and saves us.... His instruction is as always Go and sin no more.... Only with the Holy Spirits help is that possible. Thank God for His love and mercy....
 
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Maybe Blond can help make it clear.... Turn your eyes upon Jesus and the things of earth will grow strangely dim....

Is it really our job to police other people and their sin?

Are we not to reflect the life of Jesus and love them and is it not the Holy Spirits job to convict and convince of sin and prompt them and us to turn away from sinning?

How many people came up to you when you first converted and pointed out every sin you were committing and demand that you straighten up and fly right? Or was it the Holy Spirit speaking to your heart that helped you to turn from whoremongering?
You are a very wise lady.
It's kind of like the servant who was forgiven the huge debt, turning right around and having someone else arrested for having a debt. (I think the king can decide how and when to deal with anyone, and forgive their debt if He wants. But many of us think it is our right to make that call instead of Him, and we are going to exercise that right, no matter what..... I guess, to show God how this "forgiveness business" [or lack thereof] really should be handled.)
 
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