Dealing with Controlling 'group' of people
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Sad that you left Coby. Your insights are always helpful and you were always funny. *cry face*
It'd be easy if I was an entirely different person xD If I could do that with ease, the whole thing wouldn't bother me so much that I had to ask for help in dealing with them. Maybe I just need more practice, it's a change in outlook in life after all, not something that changes overnight.
Lol! Yes you're joking lol.
Me: Doh! You did it again, didn't you? This is a setup to get me to do something you don't feel like doing. Sorry, I have important things to do today, and talking ad nauseum to you isn't one of them. C'ya."
Wasn't that easy?
Wasn't that easy?
I was trying to come up with a third one liner but it hasn't hit me yet. Can you think of one for me? Because I'm like, really busy and you're obviously not doing anything.
(You know I'm joking, right?
)
(You know I'm joking, right?
)
D
How I became this person.
I was a few years younger than you, still in college, and read something:
When you're 20, you worry about what everyone is thinking of you.
When you're 40, you stop caring what everyone is thinking of you.
At 60, you realize no one is thinking of you.
So, I just jumped to the 60 mentality early. Let's face it, the only person most people are thinking about is themselves, so if you say what you're thinking, one of two things happens:
1. It shocks them enough to make them think over their self-perception.
2. They're so busy thinking about themselves they forget what you said in two minutes.
And, since I'm usually thinking about myself anyway, even if they get riled it doesn't matter. I'll forget why shortly because it's not me.
See? Easy! lol
I was a few years younger than you, still in college, and read something:
When you're 20, you worry about what everyone is thinking of you.
When you're 40, you stop caring what everyone is thinking of you.
At 60, you realize no one is thinking of you.
So, I just jumped to the 60 mentality early. Let's face it, the only person most people are thinking about is themselves, so if you say what you're thinking, one of two things happens:
1. It shocks them enough to make them think over their self-perception.
2. They're so busy thinking about themselves they forget what you said in two minutes.
And, since I'm usually thinking about myself anyway, even if they get riled it doesn't matter. I'll forget why shortly because it's not me.
See? Easy! lol