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how many times do you need it seen?
Life is what you believed it is! Do you love it, you would find reasons to love.
Do you thing it is unbearable and ugly? That´s also the way you´ve looked at it (and the way you´d be looked at).
Don´t you expects miracles? You have lost trust in Him who called you first.
If you´re living an aimless life, that would be the life you would live.
Are your standards changing to undermine You (or others), that´s the life you would live (and belive).
You are a mirror to those who identified you inside them!
You love, you´d be loved.
You hate, you´ll be hated.
As simple as that!
Choosing wrong onew in your life?
Then wrong doings would come, any time.
Ignored and, you´ll be ignored.
That´s what Jesus said:
Mat 7:12 "Do for others what you want them to do for you: this is the meaning of the Law of Moses and of the teachings of the prophets.
Luk 6:31 Do for others just what you want them to do for you.
You don´t want something or anything?
Just tell them what you want, instead.
Life is what you believed it is! Do you love it, you would find reasons to love.
Do you thing it is unbearable and ugly? That´s also the way you´ve looked at it (and the way you´d be looked at).
Don´t you expects miracles? You have lost trust in Him who called you first.
If you´re living an aimless life, that would be the life you would live.
Are your standards changing to undermine You (or others), that´s the life you would live (and belive).
You are a mirror to those who identified you inside them!
You love, you´d be loved.
You hate, you´ll be hated.
As simple as that!
Choosing wrong onew in your life?
Then wrong doings would come, any time.
Ignored and, you´ll be ignored.
That´s what Jesus said:
Mat 7:12 "Do for others what you want them to do for you: this is the meaning of the Law of Moses and of the teachings of the prophets.
Luk 6:31 Do for others just what you want them to do for you.
You don´t want something or anything?
Just tell them what you want, instead.
How long will people like to play their games?
No one is hidden before GOD, even before men.
I rather chose to tell who I am and that will not bring me shame.
Does who covet and steal, those who believed thei own lies, and all would give their account before God.
Who are they? Who were they?
You know!
Even those I knew by their names have their "secret" fights, their human longs, and online there is no secret hid.
I studied with one of these and now I know those problems nobody think are visible:
TSJ Regiones - Decisi
No one is hidden before GOD, even before men.
I rather chose to tell who I am and that will not bring me shame.
Does who covet and steal, those who believed thei own lies, and all would give their account before God.
Who are they? Who were they?
You know!
Even those I knew by their names have their "secret" fights, their human longs, and online there is no secret hid.
I studied with one of these and now I know those problems nobody think are visible:
TSJ Regiones - Decisi
Here is a .pdf file any might find interesting:
http://www.corynikkel.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Christian-Relationships-by-Nikkel-ed-1.2.pdf (by Cory Nikkel)
Why Christian relationships fail & how to make yours a success.
:)
http://www.corynikkel.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/Christian-Relationships-by-Nikkel-ed-1.2.pdf (by Cory Nikkel)
Why Christian relationships fail & how to make yours a success.
:)
Here are some words I picked out from "Why christian relationships fail & how to make your a success" (link above, on post 26):
"CHAPTER TWOGod Didn't End Your Relationship
Have you ever been in a situation where you were approached by your significant other and
solemnly told: “After praying, I feel God is telling me that we’re not meant to be together
anymore. Sorry.”
Perhaps you have, or maybe you were the one using this line. As for myself, I have been on
both ends. And now that I think about the situation more critically, I realize that God didn’t end
my or your relationship.
He did. She did. You did. God didn’t. But God is a great one to blame it on, huh?
Here’s the truth behind using God as the motive for breaking up—when God is the reason,
the blame is removed from the “relationship ender” and put on God instead. This creates two
false situations: 1) the relationship ender feels like they get out of the emotional baggage freely
because it was God who ended it, not them, and 2) the broken hearted individual on the other
side now blames or second guesses God for his/her relationship ending."
I hope you never did something like that (blaming GOD to bypass your own failures)
"CHAPTER TWOGod Didn't End Your Relationship
Have you ever been in a situation where you were approached by your significant other and
solemnly told: “After praying, I feel God is telling me that we’re not meant to be together
anymore. Sorry.”
Perhaps you have, or maybe you were the one using this line. As for myself, I have been on
both ends. And now that I think about the situation more critically, I realize that God didn’t end
my or your relationship.
He did. She did. You did. God didn’t. But God is a great one to blame it on, huh?
Here’s the truth behind using God as the motive for breaking up—when God is the reason,
the blame is removed from the “relationship ender” and put on God instead. This creates two
false situations: 1) the relationship ender feels like they get out of the emotional baggage freely
because it was God who ended it, not them, and 2) the broken hearted individual on the other
side now blames or second guesses God for his/her relationship ending."
I hope you never did something like that (blaming GOD to bypass your own failures)
Are you also aware there are too many techniques to lure and entice people published on line?
No matter how much you think you have learned!
The day you stepped inadvertently on the sidewalk, without watching at your steps, you fell in a hole you did not notice...
But I´ve chosen to walk by faith! Rather than by my sight
No matter how much you think you have learned!
The day you stepped inadvertently on the sidewalk, without watching at your steps, you fell in a hole you did not notice...
But I´ve chosen to walk by faith! Rather than by my sight
Believers and unbelievers... The conclusion is predictable (an avoidable, too).
Have you seen these?:
Joh 6:44 No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. And I will raise him up on the last day.
Joh 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
I don´t know about you but, if God or the Lord Jesus are so interested and concerned in qualifying men or women to be approachable to themselves, it´s obvious THEY also are taking the same measures to make us enough qualified and prepared to be engaged with the personwe were meant to love or to be married.
If those two single verses show the Godhead is concerned in the way such a everlasting relationship is or could be build, it is also up to them we can trust them to be approachable to those who they chose to interact and to love, particularly in the matchmaking area, where we were so worriend and concerned "finding" that one we were loking for, while the perfect choice rested on their hands, but we needed to interect with others, just the way we could be improved and perfected (Pro_27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.)
When that day happens, it was God´s will (Pro 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.)
Whomever doesn´t find her, sought in the wrong place, or could be made for another purpose (Mat 19:12 "For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth,...") and there´s no doubt some where socially limitated, physically hindered, emotionally castrated by several unmentioned earthly reasons ("and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men,") as the Lord Jesus might have clearly said ("and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.") So, ("Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.").
If you really were led to be engaged and married to the one He (God) chose, remember these:
Mar 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
If you got married to that one:
Mat 19:6 So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
If God is so interested in an everlasting relationship with His own Son, be assured He also could be concerned (and interested) in the quality and the type of relationships we could develope earthly: Whenever you were left or you were gone, there was a reason that was needed. Whenever you forced a thing, a love situation not deserving a worth, something was needed to be changed and improved, though marrieage is not for all people (and it doesn´t always please all our needs). We do not belong to this world!
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Have you seen these?:
Joh 6:44 No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him. And I will raise him up on the last day.
Joh 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
I don´t know about you but, if God or the Lord Jesus are so interested and concerned in qualifying men or women to be approachable to themselves, it´s obvious THEY also are taking the same measures to make us enough qualified and prepared to be engaged with the personwe were meant to love or to be married.
If those two single verses show the Godhead is concerned in the way such a everlasting relationship is or could be build, it is also up to them we can trust them to be approachable to those who they chose to interact and to love, particularly in the matchmaking area, where we were so worriend and concerned "finding" that one we were loking for, while the perfect choice rested on their hands, but we needed to interect with others, just the way we could be improved and perfected (Pro_27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.)
When that day happens, it was God´s will (Pro 18:22 He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.)
Whomever doesn´t find her, sought in the wrong place, or could be made for another purpose (Mat 19:12 "For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth,...") and there´s no doubt some where socially limitated, physically hindered, emotionally castrated by several unmentioned earthly reasons ("and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men,") as the Lord Jesus might have clearly said ("and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven.") So, ("Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.").
If you really were led to be engaged and married to the one He (God) chose, remember these:
Mar 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
If you got married to that one:
Mat 19:6 So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
If God is so interested in an everlasting relationship with His own Son, be assured He also could be concerned (and interested) in the quality and the type of relationships we could develope earthly: Whenever you were left or you were gone, there was a reason that was needed. Whenever you forced a thing, a love situation not deserving a worth, something was needed to be changed and improved, though marrieage is not for all people (and it doesn´t always please all our needs). We do not belong to this world!
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[FONT=Liberation Serif, serif]Thinkingabout the holy God-made marriage I got[/FONT]a conclusion and is this, one I want to share with believers andunbelievers... (which is predictable, and also avoidable, too).
Have you ever read and seen these verses?:
Joh 6:44 No one can come to me unless the Fatherwho sent me draws him. And I will raise him up onthe last day.
Joh 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, andthe life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
[FONT=Liberation Serif, serif]Aswe could infer by reading these, Jesus leads to the Fatherand, the Father also led us to Jesus. Isn´t it like that?[/FONT]
I don´t know about you but, if God or the Lord Jesus were not sointerested -and concerned- in qualifying either men or women to beapproachable to Themselves; it´s obvious THEY also weren´tconcerned in taking several measures to make us holy enough,adequately qualified and prepared, to be engaged with the rightperson they needed we were meant to love under a long termrelationship, to be finally married on earth.
You could have chosen wrong. Your ex lovers could have chosen youwrongly, but GOD´s plans were much better than yous.
If those two single verses showed you the Godhead is concerned in theway such an everlasting relationship is or could be build (on earth)it is also up to Them we can trust the Godhead to be approachableenough to those who They chose us to interact with and to love,particularly in the matchmaking area, where we were so worried andconcerned "finding" that one we were looking for, while weinadvertently ignored the perfect choice rested on Their hands, butwe needed to interact with others, just that way we could be improvedto be perfected (Pro_27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one mansharpens another.)
When that day happens, it was God´s will (Pro 18:22 He who findsa wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.)
Whomever doesn´t find her, sought in the wrong place, or could bemade for another purpose (Mat 19:12 "[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Forthere are eunuchs who have been so from birth[/FONT][FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif],[/FONT]")and there´s no doubt some where socially limited, physicallyhindered, emotionally castrated by several unmentioned earthlyreasons ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]and there areeunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men[/FONT],") as theLord Jesus might have clearly said ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]andthere are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake ofthe kingdom of heaven.[/FONT]") So, ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Letthe one who is able to receive this receive it.[/FONT]").
If you really were led to be engaged and married to the one He (God)chose, remember these:
Mar 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let not manseparate."
If you got married to that one:
Mat 19:6 So they are no longer two but one flesh. What thereforeGod has joined together, let not man separate."
If God is so interested in an everlasting relationship with His ownSon, be also assured He could be concerned (and interested) in thequality, the depth and the type of relationships we could bedeveloping earthly: [FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Wheneveryou were left or were gone, there was a reason that was needed[/FONT].Whenever you forced things, a love situation not deserving a try orits worth, something was needed to be changed (and improved) thoughmarriage is not for all people (and it doesn´t always please all ouressential needs).
We do not belong to this present world!
Have you ever read and seen these verses?:
Joh 6:44 No one can come to me unless the Fatherwho sent me draws him. And I will raise him up onthe last day.
Joh 14:6 Jesus said to him, "I am the way, and the truth, andthe life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
[FONT=Liberation Serif, serif]Aswe could infer by reading these, Jesus leads to the Fatherand, the Father also led us to Jesus. Isn´t it like that?[/FONT]
I don´t know about you but, if God or the Lord Jesus were not sointerested -and concerned- in qualifying either men or women to beapproachable to Themselves; it´s obvious THEY also weren´tconcerned in taking several measures to make us holy enough,adequately qualified and prepared, to be engaged with the rightperson they needed we were meant to love under a long termrelationship, to be finally married on earth.
You could have chosen wrong. Your ex lovers could have chosen youwrongly, but GOD´s plans were much better than yous.
If those two single verses showed you the Godhead is concerned in theway such an everlasting relationship is or could be build (on earth)it is also up to Them we can trust the Godhead to be approachableenough to those who They chose us to interact with and to love,particularly in the matchmaking area, where we were so worried andconcerned "finding" that one we were looking for, while weinadvertently ignored the perfect choice rested on Their hands, butwe needed to interact with others, just that way we could be improvedto be perfected (Pro_27:17 Iron sharpens iron, and one mansharpens another.)
When that day happens, it was God´s will (Pro 18:22 He who findsa wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the LORD.)
Whomever doesn´t find her, sought in the wrong place, or could bemade for another purpose (Mat 19:12 "[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Forthere are eunuchs who have been so from birth[/FONT][FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif],[/FONT]")and there´s no doubt some where socially limited, physicallyhindered, emotionally castrated by several unmentioned earthlyreasons ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]and there areeunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men[/FONT],") as theLord Jesus might have clearly said ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]andthere are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake ofthe kingdom of heaven.[/FONT]") So, ("[FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Letthe one who is able to receive this receive it.[/FONT]").
If you really were led to be engaged and married to the one He (God)chose, remember these:
Mar 10:9 What therefore God has joined together, let not manseparate."
If you got married to that one:
Mat 19:6 So they are no longer two but one flesh. What thereforeGod has joined together, let not man separate."
If God is so interested in an everlasting relationship with His ownSon, be also assured He could be concerned (and interested) in thequality, the depth and the type of relationships we could bedeveloping earthly: [FONT=Palatino Linotype, serif]Wheneveryou were left or were gone, there was a reason that was needed[/FONT].Whenever you forced things, a love situation not deserving a try orits worth, something was needed to be changed (and improved) thoughmarriage is not for all people (and it doesn´t always please all ouressential needs).
We do not belong to this present world!
AS GOD was the best to pick a "king" for Israel, He is also the BEST to pick your significant one between multitudes. While we see bodies and their faces, GOD is capable to look deep in the "future" as well as deep in the mind of each particular human being.
If you ever wanted someone, just for you, don´t look at his/her hight or at whatever think you think you liked, just look at GOD first, the rest are His blessings:
Mat 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
If you ever wanted someone, just for you, don´t look at his/her hight or at whatever think you think you liked, just look at GOD first, the rest are His blessings:
Mat 6:33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
I´m going to die without knowing it!
Why do we marry IN LOVE and spend too much time on discussing and hurting?
My sister just told me she discosed with the one she chose to "live"... could it be easy if she hadn´t had a baby with him?
Legally, and definitive emotional separation would be the same (he would claim things he didn´t buy but, why these things are so wide spread?
Do people love or used one another?
Pro 21:9 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
Pro 25:24 It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging wife.
The sad thing is men also bother ladies!
The sad thing is many were taken "home" whenever they had nothing, and afterwards, they get rights to be controlling or abusive, and I know BOTH could be nagging. There is not a special gender to do it that way.
It´s sad! (and I had to do that (staying out) several times).
Why do we marry IN LOVE and spend too much time on discussing and hurting?
My sister just told me she discosed with the one she chose to "live"... could it be easy if she hadn´t had a baby with him?
Legally, and definitive emotional separation would be the same (he would claim things he didn´t buy but, why these things are so wide spread?
Do people love or used one another?
Pro 21:9 It is better to live in a corner of the housetop than in a house shared with a quarrelsome wife.
Pro 25:24 It's better to stay outside on the roof of your house than to live inside with a nagging wife.
The sad thing is men also bother ladies!
The sad thing is many were taken "home" whenever they had nothing, and afterwards, they get rights to be controlling or abusive, and I know BOTH could be nagging. There is not a special gender to do it that way.
It´s sad! (and I had to do that (staying out) several times).
Some people had their ideas and it was like this: "why it's a good thing that some (men) should never marry"
I search a little and found out these (just single hyperlinks):
13 Women Men Should Never Marry (written by a woman)
A Case for Early Marriage: Why It's a Good Idea to Get Married Young (written by a husband and pastor)
10 Reasons It's Totally Fine To Never Get Married (a secular view)
This can be checked your own country (or personal life):
"And the some divorce statistics in the United States make it seem pretty grim for those who believe that marriages will last forever. It's estimated that about 40-50 percent of first marriages and 60 percent of second marriages will end in divorce. However, research on this varies. The CDC writes that the chance "of a first marriage reaching its 20th anniversary was 52% for women and 56% for men in 2006 to 2010," and this stays consistent with divorce trends through the past three decades. Also, it seems that the younger you get married, the more likely you are to get a divorce. The estimated average age for a divorce today is 30 years old."
I search a little and found out these (just single hyperlinks):
13 Women Men Should Never Marry (written by a woman)
A Case for Early Marriage: Why It's a Good Idea to Get Married Young (written by a husband and pastor)
10 Reasons It's Totally Fine To Never Get Married (a secular view)
This can be checked your own country (or personal life):
"And the some divorce statistics in the United States make it seem pretty grim for those who believe that marriages will last forever. It's estimated that about 40-50 percent of first marriages and 60 percent of second marriages will end in divorce. However, research on this varies. The CDC writes that the chance "of a first marriage reaching its 20th anniversary was 52% for women and 56% for men in 2006 to 2010," and this stays consistent with divorce trends through the past three decades. Also, it seems that the younger you get married, the more likely you are to get a divorce. The estimated average age for a divorce today is 30 years old."
