God's word is not there for us to pick and choose what we like from it. Either you trust God and believe in Him and what He said, or you do not. There are no half measures. Accept God and His whole word or be eternally damned. Those are our choices.
Your salvation is between you and God, but based on that statement I would say you are in serious jeopardy of the second judgement. Put it this way, if anyone made a statement like that I would followin the biblical instruction to talk with you about it, then with the elders in the assembly, then with the assembly and have you removed as a voting member. If they allowed you to stay after hearing that, I would go, because I would not be a part of such an assembly. It is that serious a breach of trust in God you are showing.
1 Cor 5:12 For what have I to do with judging outsiders? Is it not those inside the church whom you are to judge?
Spare me, please, your moral rant
Your 'thou shalt not', your pious cant
And let me live as I am made
Wild and free and unafraid
Dreading naught of Judgment Day
Pilgrim on another way.
If I'm wrong I'll rot in Hell
But rotting there remember well
The span I spent as but a ploy
To spread a sweet, subversive joy
And think my life not such a crime
If others, too, enjoyed my time.
But where I tread, at every turn
Are men of faith, set grim and stern
Rigid in their claims to be
So righteous they know more than me,
Though cowed beneath their codes and laws
They've lost the plot. The greater cause
Is not constraint by social rules
(cages built for souls by fools)
But the sharing of an inward light
The love of all that's good and right
And kind, and just, and true, and man
Was made for this, and this God's plan.
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