Hey! Chuck...
We're to take the full council of God not just your favorite verses, but all of them have to agree for one to be believing the truth. For example, lets take praying. We are to ask in Jesus' name. But also we are to ask in faith believing. We're to be like the widow with the unjust magistrate and wear the Lord down with the request. We to ask without asking amiss, for our own lusts. A clear conscience makes our prayers stronger as does fasting. So there is more to it that just asking in Jesus' name, even though some would insist that that is all it takes. And that's what you're doing with your pet verses that only address a facet of the truth. Because you don't really know what love and holiness are about and how they work together and set your mind above the full council of God.
Now how can I say this? No way to be gentle, really, so here goes. Your doctrine is of the devil and is perfect for teaching believers to cast their faith away as prophesied in 1 Tim 4:1 "Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith, giving heed to seducing spirits, and doctrines of devils;" Which makes the following scripture to be about those who teach what you are teaching. Mt 18:16 "But whoso shall offend one of these little ones which believe in me, it were better for him that a millstone were hanged about his neck, and that he were drowned in the depths of the sea. Jesus said, if your hand offend you; cut it off and cast it from you. For it is better to enter into life with one hand that having both hands and to be cast into fire that is never quenched. Do we believe you or do we believe Jesus? Kind of a no brainer!