Had two gay male workmates so far I worked with but I never saw them like being gay with another person as in being a couple.
I also worked with two, one said or identified that she was bisexual and the other lesbian, the lesbian one was in her twenties and I remember her saying she felt attracted to a guy and wondered what was wrong with her.
The bisexual one tried to explain her parents relationship but it was too confusing for me. Lots of adultery and I couldnt keep track, she was a like the love child.
The two gay males one was fostered, as his parents were young when they had him and couldnt look after him, and the other didnt know his dad either.
I also had a workmate who had four lesbian mums, he was a test tube baby.
In high school people werent openly gay or they covered up by having gfs and bfs. But sfter they left they would come out and people kind of knew cos they acted different.
Althougn some people had intense bff friendships and go round holding hands and people would say they were lesbians even if they werent.
I think just treat people as you would like to be treated with kindness, I mean, one of my neighbours split up with her husband cos she committed adultery, but doesnt mean i dont not say hello or anything. What happned was her new bf, was married but his wife turned lesbian, ran off with another woman, and he was into cross dressing. Yea weird. It split up her family big time and that couple, who were in the chuch worship team, well all of them didnt come back to church. They had four children and the gay couple had two young children.
The one who got cuckolded, as they call it, went to a different church, but he did have custody of three children. As far as i know nobody has remarried. But yea, big mess.