Yes, but I do not think I have an addictive personality, and it is something about meeting people where they are comfortable, and putting yourself aside for a while. I will not see this friend after next month, or very sparsely. Not in person. We were very good friends in the past, some unresolved issues. We cannot talk, he is stressed, put the weed thing on the table without being direct. I am moving away now. I figure he is saying it is hard to talk without weed. If he needs it, should I say that it is OK? Should I do it a few times with him, before I move, and will nmot meet him for a long time? What would Jesus do? I have faith in myself in this regard now, it is just weed Not going full Bill Clinton, saying I will not inhale, but could do it less enthusiastic I guess too. Against drugs now.
Nobody gets to smoke where I go to. My house is drugfree, no drugpeople allowed at all. This is outside. Nobody will ever smoke a joint in my house unless this is a bad idea. Strict rules. Told people time and again, I do not visit them to smoke, they do not get to visit me and smoke. Thinking this is harsh if they need it, as I needed it in the past. They are not my friends, this is a former family member who usedt o be my dealer, that my family wants me to be cordial to. I am not telling them that, even if it is an open secret.I do not know if he is trying, but I see him hurting and stressing. So what would Jesus do? Me or them? Or him? Basically. I will most likely let the poll decide, and seems like I cannot smoke with him. But can let him smoke in front of me, based on comments. Try doing the poll people, if you can, this is tomorrow.