I think it's fine. I'm a white guy, but I find black women the most attractive. I'm an artist, so I am sensitive to color, and like, something about very dark skin tones is just so damn beautiful to me.
Christian chat, dude. Careful with the profanity.
@FarOutFighter - He was just trying to make a friendly joke.
Lets be fair, wouldn't you agree, if a stranger posts a reply to you on "ChristianChat", the likelihood that they are insulting or threatening you is extraordinarily small?
You know, text-communication like this, where you can't see a face or hear the tone of voice makes it very difficult to figure out what someone means, especially intension, and humor. May I say, if you come across something you feel is an attack, it's beneficial to step away and come back later to see if it strikes you the say way. If you had done that with that post I think there's a good chance you would have realized it wasn't an attack.
The bible tries to help us by pointing out:
Psalms 37:8 "Refrain from anger and turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil."
Proverbs 15:18 "A hot-tempered person stirs up conflict, but the one who is patient calms a quarrel."
James 1:19-20 "My dear brothers and sisters, take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry, because human anger does not produce the righteousness that God desires."
May I say to you with good intention, much like being in-person in a new place and a stranger says something to you that you're not sure it was with good intention, it's wise to give someone the benefit of the doubt, laugh it off. Proverbs 19:11 says "A person’s wisdom yields patience; it is to one’s glory to overlook an offense." If there's real malicious intention you can address it if it ever comes up in the future.
Jesus, scripture and our church family yield great benefits regarding our perceptions, self-control, patience and restraining anger when it's beneficial.
