As An "Older" Single, What Advice Would You Give to Younger Singles?
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ok here we go with the words again what does feisty mean..huh?Actually, you are both pretty nice. Feisty is a good quality to have. Keeps you on your toes. Yep, you do have a big heart too.
..my dad used to say "bullheaded" like stubborn but google it cause its a mixture..lol. Btw..i think he only said tgat cause he liked fishing..lol
feist·y
ˈfīstē/Submit
adjectiveinformal
(of a person, typically one who is relatively small or weak) lively, determined, and courageous.
"a feisty heroine who's more than a pretty face"
synonyms: spirited, spunky, plucky, gutsy, gutty, ballsy
"the part of Annie called for a just-so balance of adorable and feisty"
Spirited..spunky ..gutsy..but ill take the pretty face too..lol..thanks..
If you don’t mind me asking...how did you and your husband meet? Sorry I am a hopeless romantic, and I love hearing the stories of how married people found each other.
Actually, I met his mama on CC! She’s the one who encouraged us to talk. After a month of suggesting it, he and I finally agreed to email. From there it went to texting, and then to phone calls. 5 months after initial email, we met in person. I also met his mama, too
Wow your story is even more adorable than I could have ever imagined!!!! Congratulations!!! Awwww!!Actually, I met his mama on CC! She’s the one who encouraged us to talk. After a month of suggesting it, he and I finally agreed to email. From there it went to texting, and then to phone calls. 5 months after initial email, we met in person. I also met his mama, too
I really love y’alls story! Did you live in the same state?Thank you! We have been married 1 yr and 4 months
Wow, so it was definitely in God’s plan! Your MIL, sounds like a sweatheart too!
Its been that long already? Seemed shorter to me, but I'm sure you're right lol.Thank you! We have been married 1 yr and 4 months
HiUOTE="Miri, post: 3688129, member: 132947"]I would say women are like fine wine, they improve with age.
With age comes more knowledge, a better idea of who you are
and want you want, hopefully too a better walk with God.
Hopefully the same applies to men too, but as I’m a woman I can only
give a woman’s perspective on that.
Young women just want to be loved and someone to take care of them,
a substitute dad.
Older woman want to give as much back as they receive, they look
for a spouse to share life with, not just a care taker.
As for comments about being past it at 27. What a load of........insert an
appropriate word.
I’ve just turned 50! Picture of me a few weeks before my birthday
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Anyway to younger singles, I would say learn to love God and learn to
love who you are. So many people have hang ups because they hate who
they are. How can you expect someone to love and respect you if you don’t
have any love and respect for yourself.
Also don’t sell yourself short and don’t lower your standards just to
get hitched quickly. Keep your eyes on God and use your time for His
work.
I’ve been involved in so many things for God, have met many amazing
people along the way and have had great opportunities which I might
not have had time for as a married person.
Things like going on children’s camps for 10 years,
helping with Sunday school and teen clubs. In that sense I hope
I have lots of children! Travelling all over the place along the way
and I have lots of wonderful memories.
Learning to play various musical instruments, playing sax on the
worship team for 10 years, which gave opportunities to play with
and meet some famous Christian musicians.
I’ve been Privileged to do some paid for work and voluntary with a couple of Christian
charities, plus much more.
Now I look after my elderly aunt. It’s hard work
but she is a Christian too and loved by God and me. It’s a privilege to
do so and God had given me this awesome responsibility so He must
believe in me and that I can do it.
I’m not blowing my own trumpet besides I never learnt the trumpet!
But what I’m trying to say is being single doesn’t mean there is no life.
Being single gives you time to get involved in and do all those things
married people always say they wish they had time for.
Being single doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Being married doesnt
mean you will always be happy. Life is what you make it regardless of
being single or married.[/QUOTE]
With age comes more knowledge, a better idea of who you are
and want you want, hopefully too a better walk with God.
Hopefully the same applies to men too, but as I’m a woman I can only
give a woman’s perspective on that.
Young women just want to be loved and someone to take care of them,
a substitute dad.
Older woman want to give as much back as they receive, they look
for a spouse to share life with, not just a care taker.
As for comments about being past it at 27. What a load of........insert an
appropriate word.
I’ve just turned 50! Picture of me a few weeks before my birthday
View attachment 186979
Anyway to younger singles, I would say learn to love God and learn to
love who you are. So many people have hang ups because they hate who
they are. How can you expect someone to love and respect you if you don’t
have any love and respect for yourself.
Also don’t sell yourself short and don’t lower your standards just to
get hitched quickly. Keep your eyes on God and use your time for His
work.
I’ve been involved in so many things for God, have met many amazing
people along the way and have had great opportunities which I might
not have had time for as a married person.
Things like going on children’s camps for 10 years,
helping with Sunday school and teen clubs. In that sense I hope
I have lots of children! Travelling all over the place along the way
and I have lots of wonderful memories.
Learning to play various musical instruments, playing sax on the
worship team for 10 years, which gave opportunities to play with
and meet some famous Christian musicians.
I’ve been Privileged to do some paid for work and voluntary with a couple of Christian
charities, plus much more.
Now I look after my elderly aunt. It’s hard work
but she is a Christian too and loved by God and me. It’s a privilege to
do so and God had given me this awesome responsibility so He must
believe in me and that I can do it.
I’m not blowing my own trumpet besides I never learnt the trumpet!
But what I’m trying to say is being single doesn’t mean there is no life.
Being single gives you time to get involved in and do all those things
married people always say they wish they had time for.
Being single doesn’t mean you have to be lonely. Being married doesnt
mean you will always be happy. Life is what you make it regardless of
being single or married.[/QUOTE]
Aweeee sounds a wee harsh, hope you are just a wee skewed. Well, I don't want you holding on to hurt or resentment, but I do hape your assessment isn't as founded as you perceive it to be. God Bless you, brother.
Truer words were never spoken. Wait my response was intended for your comment about what most men are looking for not this, lol. One as a Christian can not, lol.
This is about the same driving time between me and my honey when we first met on CC.
